Help please

Listen to skiing. He speaks wise words right there!

If you use the scrying mirror, use it for divination not spirit communication. Angle the mirror so that the only thing it reflects is the soft light of a candle flame. Then gaze (not stare) at it as you meditate until you see what looks similar to clouds form in the mirror. Don't freak out, remain relaxed, or you'll set yourself back. After this you may ask questions, and your subconscious mind will take over, giving you answers in the form of images in the mirror's reflection. This is similar to a waking dream. It takes many hours of practice so don't think it is an easy technique to master. Everything worth while takes effort. Some are naturals, others must work at it.

Many say that we have the answers to everything within ourselves. Such things allow us to access these answers. Some involve spirits when scrying, but I prefer the only person I trust 100%..my higher self =)