Re: Change personality traits By: Artindark Moderator / Adept
Post # 12 May 28, 2013
Absent we can can change ourselves by share power of our will after recognizing and observing the trait we do not like and by trying to change it .It will take time and effort and will power to work .
If someone wants to try to change people ,he/she better start helping them to realize, where their traits are becoming harmful for themselves and others .We all judge mostly wrong for our own traits and personalities ,it is pure statistics .And we also ,sometimes judge others wrong ,so there is plenty of room for mistakes and misunderstanding .Reality is in the eye of the observer or the conscious /unconscious of last one ,so does the trait and behavior .The trick is to learn to observe yourself from outside as your peers would .I would assume astral projection and trance work shall do the trick by helping you to be your own peer ,even in places you never imagined you could exist as being and as thinking thing .
What if that person is someone you live with and that someone is a parent and they hate you and you want them to stop drugs so they will be able to stay healthy because they're the only parent you have left and you can't stand losing them, too when you're still only 15 and when you try to work they just take your money for more drugs and if you try to stand up to them, they beat you up?
I do not agree with the comments below. I am personality very interested in this spell because my best friend's mother is psychologically and physical abusive, smacking her children and husband and throwing things when she's angry and telling my best friend that she's worthless and stupid. Using this spell to calm her angry and make her a more ration person would benefit the safety of my best friend, her dad and even the mother's relationship with her family. Blessed be, thank you for this spell.
You can't really know if a method will work or not unless you've tried it before. Same goes with the spells. If I wanted to see a spell would or not, I would test it myself.
I believe every rational spell may or may not work on everybody. (omitting fantasy spells) so the best way to know if the spell is going to change one's traits or not, would be testing it.
I don't doubt this spells effectiveness, but like with love spells and curses, you need to determine it through your own morality. A person can choose to change their personality at any time [today is the first day of the rest of your life and all that] but it is their choice to change. What this spell does is tell them to change. You are very annoyed by your boyfriends bad jokes, this spell is like saying 'you may be happy, but I'm pissed, so stop doing that so I can be happy.' This is what makes so many people upset. Force your will over another is generally seen as morally wrong.
Spells like these rarely last, and you would need to recast. A person has free will, while sometimes mental issues [like bi-polar] or substance abuse problems are the root cause and therefore need professional help, sometimes [like a negative outlook] need the person to wake up one day and decide to look on the bright side of life. Personal change and growth is a good thing, but its a journey one must take on their own. This spell suppresses their nature, not eleminate it. Talk to the person and try to help them change. In the case of abuse, again, this spell would not work, or not very long, as the reason would be deeper than 'bad temper' and needs to be addressed proffessionally.
Finally, just because something is on this website [or anywhere on the internet] doesn't mean it works and is a 100% fact. Anyone can post anything on the internet, and anyone in the council can post any spell they imagine with no one to proof read or stop them.
I think it also depends upon intention. This is really a tricky topic though because being able to objectively understand our own motivation is one of the hardest things to do.
I actually take the opposite position to most people on this forum page because I can see times when it would be acceptable. For instance, you're married and you spouse has been extremely flirtatious. Maybe she has even cheated on you once but she's is making every effort to change. You two are going for marriage counseling and she is genuinely trying to change but is having a lot of difficulty. She has made a strong commitment to you and wants to change. I could see this as being a supplement to the outside help you're already receiving in this case.
Now, I don't believe it to be healthy for your own spiritual development to just go around changing everyone you don't like. That's probably kind of selfish and not so good for your spiritual development I think. I think if your intention and motivation is good... and you're extremely careful about when you do it then there would be times when it might be acceptable but that's also different for everybody. Some people will never bring themselves to do a spell like this and you'd never be able to convince them to. All I can say in the end is that you're the one who has to live with the consequences of your actions so nobody can tell you what you will or will not do but yourself. I just encourage you to make sure your heart is in the right place and not to use it recklessly. Good luck. Blessed Be.