opinion on love spells

"only having eyes for you" - The thing is that your lover will be attracted to other people. It's normal and healthy. If you cast a spell that makes your lover less attracted to others, you will be repressing love. And when the spell wears off, your lover may have a surge of being more attracted to everyone. It's like a pendulum. If you swing it one way, it will swing back the other way just as much.

Most of the time, you're worried about nothing. But, if your lover's actions are making you feel a certain way (like maybe looks at others in public or flirts with others), it's best to talk about it. Often times honest conversation is the most powerful form of magic.

"keeping a lover faithful" - Why are so worried that your partner is going to cheat? Maybe you think an attractive person is threatening to your relationship. Maybe you are insecure about yourself. Maybe you are the one who thinks about cheating, and you assume your lover does too.

It might be a better idea to cast a spell on yourself, first. One that brings attention to your own attractiveness and your positive traits. And maybe one that gives you a keener sense of what your lover is attracted to, and how to satisfy your lover. This way, you are not trying to cast a spell on someone without their permission.

I feel like love spells are manipulative and selfish.
*SIGH*
But, I suppose all is fair in love and war....right?

It's all depend on each individual. For me it's a selfishness and can kill my pride,modesty and respect. I am lucky to use my natural charm. But for some other type it's ok to keep a "slave" near and enjoy! For some ,spell is a last option to be happy in this world lol. Some people casting this spell,because they are weak and can't handle a pain from being abandoned. Some people full of complexes sitting behind the doors and casting spells on neighbors....there certain spell,which can attract love without a certain person and I feel it's ok to use it as a last option to find love. Kind regards

So I'm confused. I've always read and believed that just because you cast a love spell that focuses on a particular person, if the person has no feelings for you the spell won't work. It doesn't seem that we are therefore bending free will. Also, I've read that if it's not in the bigger universes' plan it won't happen either. I consider those two escape hatches that ensures you aren't enslaving someone for your selfishness.