Incubus?

I have one that I did not summon. I haven't had any issues with it sine I moved, but it will eventually show up, this I know for sure.
I have actually seen it. In its shadow form.I woke up while he was doing to me what it was that I thought I was dreaming about.
I hears him say"she's awake, what should I do" as if he were talking to some eles. And I could see others standing behind him when I opened my eye's.
I have had a few conversations with him (mentally of course).
I'm assuming it's an incubis,but I'm a little curious that it my also be an vampire. Because I sometimes smell what seems to be cologne and I know I have smelt it before. Infact one day at work,one of my costumers that comes in quit often was wearing the same thing.
Just wondering what I can do to stop this. I'm new at the whole magic spells. I know I'm strong and I'm not afraid. Just tierd. Like I said I haven't had any issues with whatever it is since I moved. I just want to be prepared for when it,they,them ? Do come calling in the middle of the night.

Incubi, male sex demons, when summoned once and a while can be perfectly safe (though there are some variance of belief on whether they can be summoned from an existing source or only created in a servitoresque fashion). A dependency on this creature, as with many things, is unhealthy and can manifest physically in shivers, paleness, etc. So dangerous? Not if you know whats going on, but the same could be said for a

Personally, I'd be more likely to craft a incubus to stick to someone, if I had to use an incubus that it is. I suppose it'd be more primed to attack a married person... Hm