No no no.... i don't think you understand, sorry if i wasn't clear but i DO in fact have very strong feelings for this boy. In fact it was so bad at one point last year that i couldn't eat, i couldn't sleep, i cried myself to sleep almost every night and my grades started dropping. I had to talk to my mom about him and she wasn't even happy with the way i described him she tried to convince me of every logical explanation as to why he was trouble and not right for me thinking it would help. The only thing i didn't want to accept was the possibility that i was in love with him or something. Sometimes i forget his face because i haven't seen him since my birthday... but some moments like right now i can see his face so clearly that it kills me.
you cant help it.. trust me..
i am facing the same time, from the last two n half months, i think of him everymoment, whisper his name every now n then. even if i am engaged with work, i keep thinking about him, i visit his facebook almost every 10 minutes from a fake profile (he has blocked me :( ]
i check his whatsapp status every time i login my account, more like 1000 times a day.
even i tried many spells nothing worked, wishing god ..
Well pooja21 i'm sorry that you're going through the same thing. Yes it is almost like a curse. I believe he could care less and or/hates me to that's what kills me the most sometimes that he wasn't left with a positive thought about me. But i got my answer it's nothing spiritual or what not so thanks everyone.
Well like i said i DID ask God for help like a gagillion times already. At first i had begged for him to be mine then i BEGGED for him to just leave my thoughts after i knew we weren't going to get together. Now recently i just ask him to bring someone into my life who fits my standards just like him. Anyways i stopped praying about that subject, pointless if nothing is being answered or whatever has to mean something.
I know how you are feeling. (Except I'm a guy and I like a girl :P) but you know what my first girlfriend was the one who asked me out not the other way round. And I fell in love with her and she is the one I still love to this day even after 4 years and 5 short relationships and a lot of very emotional talks. But she is with another guy and I hate him to the core. You'll probably not get over the guy you like for a long time but at some point you'll either learn to deal with your feelings for him or you will begin to hate him for not wanting you and hate yourself for loving him. I don't know how well prayer works but I've recently began to pray but only to one goddess for love. Try praying to just one consistently and leave offerings if you can. And be emotional and specific when you pray. And most of all when you pray give it time to work. Best of luck.
Coming from someone who has been in your position i want to try to shed some light on it. You are obsessed with somebody because they are letting you do it. Somehow they have made you beleive they have feelings for you and demand you return them or they will take away their attention. You are giving them something. Whatever they can get without realy having to commit to anything. Ego boost, sex, they dont know how to say no and have a staring problem. The list is too big. They are moraly deficient and you feel sorry for them because someone else did it for you and thats how we learn. People do it all the time and it sucks to be alone if you are polyamorous or not. So you change and lose yourself for someone who may never be capable of loving another in return short of a near death experience. Love goes both ways. Having love for someone and being in love with someone are 2 different things. Redirect your obsession into strong energy to improve yourself and work at that, its very fullfilling. Get out meetpeopl
Re: Thinking about someone? By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 19 Jan 02, 2014
Sounds like love. Your love spells would be counterproductive because they will just make it worse. If neither of you are courageous enough to make the first step, you're just torturing yourselves.
Either do something physically about it (talk to them!) or reverse those spells and disconnect from them. Spells that unbind two people will generally work on a spiritual and psychological level if done properly. But once this is done, that's it. Don't expect to go back to the person later.
Love isn't all fun and games. When love isn't reciprocated, it can in fact make people go insane. It doesn't usually because most people learn to let go and move on.
WhiteRav3n i'll try to undo the ones i can remember. I all honesty i didn't even think any of them even worked but it doesn't even matter now because i don't even see him anymore, and i know he doesn't even care about me at ALL if he ever DID. So i'm gonna try hopefully it will give me some relief!