You could try using a poppet of your ex to bring them pain. A poppet is usually filled with herbs for it's cause and a personal object. Hair, a picture, you can even use a piece of paper with their signature. If you can't secure a personal object that will fit inside the poppet you can write their name in bat's blood ink 9 times on a piece of parchment. You can also use some painful items such as thorns, pine needles, briars, etc. in the mix. Just be careful handling these for you don't want to draw your own blood while working on the poppet. Once the poppet has been sewn shut you can then begin placing other pains upon them. I would start with a pin tipped with stinging nettles straight through the heart. I would also bind their legs individually to help slow them down in life. This will make them feel like they are making no progress, they will loose interest in things, or they may just become lazy. A binding around the eyes will also help them to not see the truth or be blind to it. This can help you continue your revenge as well as cause issue in there life all around. They may not see when people are taking advantage of them like the new girlfriend, a coworker, or other associate.
Lastly please reconsider what you are asking for help doing before you actually do it. Many often regret throwing a curse after they are done and they experience what happens. Casting magic in any form may change you. Positive castings often change a person in a positive way however negative castings often change a person in a negative way. Purposefully bringing pain into someone's life is not advised because of this but sometimes we must experience for ourselves to learn.
Hi Feeling Broken I know how you feel ....I was once there ....so sorry...in regards to using a spell so he feels your pain I personally don't do this kind of spell ...what ye set forth comes back to thee x3 ...Karma will find him ...hang in there and watch but be careful what you do by using spells
I keep trying to move on but our situation is very hard as we see each other most every day and he seems to want to continue to keep me on a string :( Mixed signals very mixed!!! But of course his favorite quote is "Why have your cake if you can't eat it to"? He's very selfish as I'm finding out. I need your help you were my best friend I fall and help then oh I'm done.....Maybe I just need a protection spell that he will feel pain when he comes near me? As he left yesterday to go on this trip with his new love his last words to me were "I Love You" Then this morning oh I really need your help while I'm gone??? It's like he's using magic to keep me still attached to him?? I feel so much anger inside it's burning!! I'm really at a loss....Help!
I am very sorry for your torment, I had a similar situation with my ex-wife, and she seemed to revel in it too. Sounds like this dude is a feminine hygiene product and the bag it comes in to the core! Rest assured, people like this ALWAYS get what's coming to them, and they usually do not enjoy the taste of their own medicine. Best wishes to you.