Honey Jar Love questions

So just as an update, I started my honey jar today. I did as everyones advice mentioned:

- Wrote females names on petition side by side with "love each other" as its command.
- Added Pictures of me and them (individually of course), folded pics and petitions 3 times towards myself.
- Added both of there hand writings that says Love(their names)
- Added their hair
and Added cinnamon, ginger, rosemary, roses, basil, lavender, bay leaves, oregano and cayenne powder.

Question: How forgiving is the spell if something isnt done completely right? Im pretty sure I did everything correctly but it has me wondering if I did everything right.

MistyWench, Would it be ok if I sent you a message by email? I had a couple of questions. Thanks

During the candle lighting ritual each day, how long are you supposed to pray to the jar and talk to the candle? The only reason I ask is because today during my candle lighting, I prayed to my jar while imagining what my intentions were. Then when I talked to the candle (while lit) I imagined talking to the person(s) and imagined my intentions. My candle was half way finished (half left) and then I had an urgent matter that took me away from my candle/honey jar. At first I thought the draft from me leaving blew out the candle which really worried me, but then when I came back I realized it was all burnt out. Was praying and talking to my candle/honey jar enough or should I re-light another candle and start over?

Question to all: I'm not sure if this matters, but there was one candle lighting that I got pulled away by an emergency and was only able to do half the candle lighting. Now today I realized that the first week that I was supposed to burn my candles for seven days I actually missed counted and light eight candles meaning I went from Friday to Friday not taking in consideration of the amount of days I actually did the spell. I'm back on track this week by doing 3 candle lighting ceremonies.

So now for my question: How much effort and consistence does the candle lighting matter? Did I do a major mistake? How much time should be spent with the candles (did I mess up the candle lighting when I had the emergency). Please give me some guidance cause I want my honey jar spell to work without any mistakes.

Thanks

Hello All! I was wondering if anyone would tell about their Honey Jar success stories and how they noticed they were starting to come true.

Also, if anyone could give me some examples as to what I could start to notice with my Honey Jar spell.

'Many religions throughout the test of time have came to the understanding of multiple partner relationships. No one ever tells an indigenous tribe or a fundamentalist Mormon that their communion is wrong'
Yes, patriarchal religions allowed men to have multiple wives because marriage was (and still is, in many places) legally considered male 'ownership' of women. Plenty of people believe this is wrong.
It's also a generally entitled and self-centred way to view relationships with women.