To break a natural shield

Thank you very much, i did give him all the time he wants he knows i love him and ge knows i will be waiting, but something happened and now he is even mean sometimes and he said he will never come back with me. I havent done any spells lately because i am looking to gain more energy and do it in a better state of mind and doing the correct one but i cant find what i am looking for. Some people suggested to get someone more powerfull to do an obssesion spell with mind influence but i dont know if that will work and others say to try the spells ones he is sleeping has his guard will be down then. I am confused but i researched and everything and i know we are meant for each other. I thought his mum loved me but she doesnt and realising that as well is so hard because i always looked up for her like she was my own mum. And now i just want to do an hex on her to feel what i felt because of her to loose him or to feel bad about it and tell him the truth

After some pondering, my first inkling is that a honey jar might be something that would help. The idea is to 'sweeten' your connection with another person, making opportunities for letting go of negativity and stimulating positive movement.

The process is pretty simple, and there are a few examples of honey-jars sprinkled through the site so finding info shouldn't be too tough.

Start with a jar, and place a photo of the person you want to influence. You can add a photo of yourself as well but it isn't necessary. Then you place a few items into the jar that represent positivity in your relationship. Flower petals, a keepsake from a time both of you were happy together, maybe a piece of amethyst (healing) or similar crystal representing clear thought (quartz) empowerment (blue kyanite) Or release of negativity (onyx, jet, obsidian, etc). Cleansing herbs like sage or cedar chips help too. Then adding some raw sugar or a good volume of actual honey. Hence the name.

Another practice would be to use a period of meditation to recognize and visualize your connection to this person as a thread of energy, and to focus on ideas of healing, betterment, peace, and clarity. In effect this could act as a remote healing and empowerment as you visualize these intents following that connection to him. I am not sure if you are familiar with the ideas behind energy-working but if you already have some practice with it, this might be worth trying.

Tbank you very much i will try

If he has made up his mind that he is not interested in a relationship then he has made up his mind. There's no reason to continue pursuing this person and attempting to override his will.

I've seen such things backfire big-time, resulting into a feedback loop onto the person's own obsession for their desired, while their target was happily enjoying the romantic company of someone else.

Sometimes it's worth letting go and moving on yourself. If it's meant to be, so to speak, the other person will come back around. Don't allow yourself to wallow in obsession.

Agreed. If magics/healing to empower, protect, and remove outside influences are not bringing out change then it will be time to seriously consider it may be because there is not any outside influence to remove.

That natural shield you're talking about is protection from his guardians and spirit guides. You can't break it. Unless that person does something really bad and the guides leave the person alone, you can't harm the person.

Keep in mind harming someone through magical means involves consequences and karmic reactions. It's best if you leave the person alone.