Crimes of passion happen for a reason, and sadly there is nothing in nature more natural than savage violence.
Personally if you are an individual hell bent on vengeance or revenge, and so long as you are prepared to deal with the potential ramifications, then have at it.
Actually been there and did it...burn the tshirt though as it would be evidence.
Please do not generate an argument. I have not inflicted my views upon anyone. I have stated my own knowledge of the study of human behavior nor have I stated my opinion on what I think is right and wrong.
Peccator may sound a bit...."preachy" in his posts, but I will have to admit he is absolutely correct. Holding a grudge or hate within yourself will eat away at you until your entire person changes. Cool minds prevail always, but I will admit there is quite nothing like getting even.
Sometimes we do have to make war to have peace, it is our nature.
That experience is a personal one and you can't use that to define others. Your experience does not determine that it is right or wrong for everyone. That only pertains to you. I have done my share of curses before. Did I feel sorry? Did it eat me alive? No.
Personally I have to agree with Peccator with regards to right and wrong. I believe that with the power to cast spells and have them work, comes a certain level of ethical responsibility. Of course it's everyone's prerogative to do as they please; I can't force anyone to follow my beliefs but, using the idea that causing harm to someone is ok because we all have different beliefs systems just does not fly with me.
Yes, I'm sure there are as many spells that cause harm as ones that are well meaning, so obviously there is a market for them. Remember this though, with the mindset that it's ok to use a spell to harm another...don't complain when life throws that same pain right back at you. After all, if it's ok to dish it out, it's ok to receive it. Who knows, it could just be someone who feels as you do now. I'm sure you would understand how they feel in wanting to cause you harm or inflict a little pain, right?
Selena based on your own posting you indicate that it is ok. It was stated earlier that a wrong has been committed, so are you advising that we all turn the other cheek so folks can continue kicking you. Look around you folks, karma isnt punishing anyone, otherwise all of our politicians would be dead within a week.
Nature respects balance, though nature alone will not set things right.
This post isn't about what we think is right or wrong and pushing our views on others. So it isn't a matter of opinion. It is about helping the practitioner with a question they asked instead of telling them what you think they should or should not do. We are talking about practices to answer her question and really shouldn't be dilluting this thread with a clash of views.
