I think that's a bit extreme. I thought sex magic used the tension between or towards someone/something to power the work.. it doesn't always have to be rated x.
While this practice can be used for spellwork it is far from being about casting spells. The act of sex magic is sacred. It's a means of building energy through a sexual activity whether by self or with another. It's not subjective to sexual orientation. In fact many deities like offerings of energy built in such a manner. In Northern-Tradition Shamanism it's a means of getting into an altered state of conscious, and can also be a way to achieve the horsing of a deity. It can be done as a means of devotions, offering, getting close to your partner (if there is one), and growing a connection to the deity being offered to. As I said, it's so much more than casting spells. I would personally say that using it to cast a spell is more of a misconception.
Merry meet! I partially agree with you all. Sex is supposed to be a sacred and wonderful and sacred part of life. Eventually one will become exposed to it and like everything, there is a good and bad in sex. It doesn't matter what our opinion is about sex magick. I personally think that if you want to enhance your sex life then who is anyone to judge you? Hopefully this post will help you or someone you know. Blessed be.
ok so. sex magick is not bad, it's natural. and it could be sacred, or it could be something thats not. we as humans have a right to explore our sexuality. and the practice itself is the use of energy generated by orgasm for spells. there is honestly nothing wrong with experimenting. and the fact of it being sacred, personally i feel there's more excitement in being with a stranger, but not everyone is comfortable with that. it doesn't have to be a bad thing, its what you make it.
Sex magic is often used in ritual to raise energy, and is a powerful means of doing so. Using it for that purpose is a personal decision, usually between two consenting adults (or alone). I don't think judging whether it is 'right' or 'wrong' makes sense as it is so personal.
There are some cultures that revere sex as a kind of magic in and of itself - but yeah, there's nothing innately wrong with sex magic. I mean, there are those who use it for nefarious purposes, but most of the people I know who use sex magic use it to get closer to their partners (or themselves) or achieve a higher level of consciousness or meditative state. I know a couple who use the karma sutra as a way of strengthening their relationship with one another and with their respective deities.
Sex in and of itself is powerful and is considered a ritual like it or not. it is sacred and should be held with the upmost respect. it is not for children for sure, and should not be done unless you know what you are doing. I have had several experiences with this form of magic and teach to prepare for it and it should be said that it is one of if not the most powerful forms of energy as it takes a great deal of focus as we all know is key to any practice. Being said it is not wrong unless you outright do it stupidly as with anything.
I don't think I would consider this sex magic but the first time my previous boyfriend and I wanted to have sex he was so nervous that he wasn't even comfortable with even looking at me. It was cute but we were adults and it was a bit odd so the next time we tried (and succeeded) I cast a calming/ease spell to "lighten the mood". That's about all I have ever done.
I'm not really sure what you mean by sex magic though. Do you mean a spell to make the sex you're having better? You should probably jut talk to your partner about what works and what doesn't for you and your partner.
