Spell for abused???

I'd do some healing work to compliment therapy.

Magic alone isn't going to solve the issue, and clearly he still needs to work through some things.

Definitely!

He is seeking therapy, but I don't want him to suffer in the meantime. The urgency is also centered around a girl that is after him and has helped convince him to leave me. Perhaps I can work on her first? Keep her out of the picture until he can get more help. She is really selfish and doesn't know how badly he is damaged.

Really anything that will ease his pain would be beneficial.

I'd hotfoot her.

cat Yronwode has an excellent guide that you can use based on what you can get from your target.

http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

Thanks!

Seems like a pretty good one. She has hurt many others over the short time I have known her. The area would be good without her.

Anyone else have any ideas.

What a difficult situation.
Like Conjure Lady said Magick along with lots of therapy can help. Try some protection for him along with ridding of negative emotion crystals. Such as Rose Quartz or Snowflake Obsidian, etc...
As for the other lady, the hotfoot sounds good or a banishment spell might work.
I wish you the best.
Blessings

Thanks! I have given him snowflake obsidian before but without the knowledge. I will get it back into his hands right away.

I am gonna bump this back into the first page to see if any one else has any good ideas. Since I last posted things have gone much the same and my lover/friend is still breaking down. I have not hotfooted yet as I just now found out where the girl involved works, still don't know where she lives. I am hoping it will work when i place it at her job. She spends more time there than anywhere else anyway.

Thanks for any additional ideas out there.

-kva

So sorry to hear about this. I hope the therapy is helping. If he believes in magick, you can cleanse and charge the obsidian with him. He will be partaking in a physical way to help himself. Even if it is placebo effect, it will help him through it. May he find peace with this...Blessed Be

A spell wont be needed let him have his time I understand you both love eachother but you both can still talk like hi hry etc... but all you have to do is stay strong and help him keep his head up high.