Bells, the best thing you can do is ignore the guy. odds are: A. He really does like your friend. if so, move on.
b. He is trying to make you ask him out by making you jealous by asking your friend out. I would lean on this, but we guys don't like to take a risk of ending up with a girl we real,ly don't like, so i say just move on.
Helping whenever I can,
Laumu Feign Silverwing
well, Manie, I'm here to help as many people as I can. Bella is a friend, and this is the stuff that I am good at giving advice on, so I figured I would help out a bit...
You don't need a love spell. Forget about him. If he is too stupid and blind to see you care so much, he's only out for one thing. Remember, it is friendship bonding only that you want. That is where your love will be, not where he is right now.
Just be his real friend. Who really cares about that girlfriend, anyways. She already betrayed you. She knew you had your heart set on him. If that was my friend, I would back down and work up the set up between him and my girlfriend if she told me ahead of time, without you telling her you cared about him, no matter how much I adored him. I would give him up for her.
She'll betray you a thousand times before this life is over. Friends have their purpose, don't count on not being betrayed like this. Enjoy your fun times with what you love to do. That is their purpose of being friends. Nothing more.
I have not met one person in life that won't betray their own kind and do.
So, as far as that goes, phhhhhhhhht.
Project your will to the universe in your mind of what you want in life. Imagine every god out there is listening. (Because, though they are more human than god, they are listening and will consider your plea to them.)
Do not make it him, make it better than him. He will come to you. You just have to believe and will it now.
The eye on the dollar bill, in the middle of the triangle, isn't there for it's own conspiracy. They are there, too, not only to betray and sabotage but to solidify, create and build. It's all about balance. You will find your wishes coming true by making them come true by your will. Law of Attraction.
If you did not get his attentions the way you wanted. It is the attentions you didn't will. Perhaps, a little nervous?
Do it over. Will it better and more confident this time.
You are not a bad friend or person. You are perfect just the way you are. We are all flawed, so that makes us perfect in any flawed state or doing unflawed thing state. So, don't burden yourself with misperceptions of perfections.
This is, also, why you will forgive and love your friend, anyways. But, you tell her straight out how you feel betrayed by her for liking him. Set boundaries and let her know the consequences to her lack of caring for you in this matter. You will both get over it by the 5th boyfriend. He will not be the last conquest.
Make lots of friends, you will be let down. But, never part from any one of them. They are both beautiful wonderful people and flawed. It is because we are born to be flawed that you must forgive and forget. But, definitely push your convictions and set boundarieens with consquences.
For example. Yell at her. Tell her that she KNEW you like him and now you feel betrayed. Then, tell her the consquences are that you still love her as a friend. But, she must be punished to feel your boundary and never cross it again.
Think of some small timeframe. Then, when that time frame is up, maybe two days or three. Let her know you have to have a meeting to discuss this matter. Then, once hashed out, forgive, hug and love each other. Your final words should be, Beothc (you know what that means, just can't spell swears here I'll get banned) don't hurt me again.
But, never let anyone hurt you without boundary settings and consequences.
My suggestion is to walk your tail right over to that dumb guy and blast him vocally with all your soul's pain, for being so stupid to not see that you cared. Then, tell him you won't ever care again. Period. Tell him with passion: "Dumb guys don't deserve" you. You need a smart guy. Then, tell him you will be his friend but nothing else.
**entertainment and possible scenario suggestion only**
Be well and nurse your soul's injury, you must treat yourself to a warm bath with special new scented soap. You must take a walk and sit and walk. You must write about this heartache and pain. Read a good book about Law of Attraction and change your mind.
Remember one important vital lesson in life. It's not the having of your conquest that feels so good. It's the wanting that is the best part. You aren not missing much from dumb boys.
Bellz Hunni belive me i know what ur going thru, it happeded to me with jack,my ex he went out with mi friend sabrina, and literally tore us apart. i went out with im later on but never mind that,an after we broke upit litterally tore mi life APART. take mi advice, 4get about him. and i know what your gonna say...Easyer said than done....or that its impossible,thts wat i said, but try, cut yourself off frm talking to him at all. thts what i did. And im still not over him compleatly, it STILL hurts to thing about him... But hunnie u gotta try.
