Pregnant and single

To delete the thread...just delete your first post...that will remove the whole thread..

its really weird that you post on a public forum but dont want peoples true opinions....i suggest since your going to have a baby soon that you stop trying to make it about you...its about your child now...deal with the responsibility....and if your sorry excuse for a boyfriend ever hurts you or your child...do not come back to this site asking for sympathy....we have warned you.

I wanted to write and respond as well. You are better off without Mr. Hormones.......sometimes it is better to raise children on your own than to try and win him back.

He was clear with you about not wanting a relationship and not wanting to be a father. The "ball" is in your court now.

Being older than you and with quite a few years of parenting on my experience, raising a child (much less my 4) is difficult, and stressful. Children pick up on these stresses and it affects them.

My best advice to you would be to move on and forget the loser(pardon my judgement) and focus on that child because you will need to be both a mom and dad to this child. When the time is right....you will find someone who isnt such an ass to you. There are plenty of good guys out there.....get rid of this one, heal for a bit and focus on your child.

I am a father and I am happy my son was born. Please, focus on your chile and not him, because if he isn't there, then he wants nothing to do with you or your child.