First off, i feel that you shouldnt have told people about you until you knew more about magick, the occult and spirituality first. Because if your not experienced with it things can go terribly wrong and can cause problems with others.
And second that person should even be your friend is she was going to treat you that way just because you where studying magick. People just dont have respect for anyone anymore. And its really just irratates me. This world has become so cruel half the time i just wish things where more peaceful and different but its not and thats Reality for us.
Friends are suppose to be there for each other and not fight and be rude and try to take advantage. That is just plain wrong. If i where, i would have just shuved up her face or punch her, but that would just get you in trouble and i dont do fights.
Overall if you dont feel comfortable telling people that you are wiccan, pagan, shaman what ever. Then you shouldn't, because sometimes they can be that way and take advantage of you.
You don't need any ingredients to do a spell, but tell this girl that if she wants to use magick for love she better do it herself. Also threaten her, if she really believes you have magickal abilities what makes her think she can blackmail you?
personally, i'd put a hex on her [not a black magic spell to kill her, a bad luck hex] sometimes we need to stand up for ourselves as people, and if that means magically to get your point across so be it.
other options, if you don't like 'black' magic, i would use a stop gossip spell. i'll send you a couple spells though, but if you want my advice, i'd either refuse and curse her, or explain to her why you can't cast a spell for her and it have the same effect if she cast a spell for herself.
#2: Tell her if she doesn't leave you alone, you put a "You Stink" spell on her. This is a spell where every time she gets near a cute guy, he will start smelling something in the air that's distinctly unpleasent.
#3: When you tell her this, do it with extreme confidence, a calm voice and manner, and wear a small, knowing smile on your face. Gets 'em ever time, lol!
if your so nervous and panicky, then why not bind her to secrecy or something like that? and anyway, she's no friend if she's gonna go gossiping about you. your real friends are those who have your back and stand by your side through thick and then. she's truly cold with the way her reaction turned out to be.
Re: PLEASE PLEASE READ By: lindacash420 Moderator / Adept
Post # 12 Oct 30, 2011
its blackmail, if you give in it will never end. What is the threat..that they will start gossip about you? Do you really care? If it happens just smile enigmatically and let the idiots spout what nonsense they will...doing their bidding wont stop that in the long run anyhow. You might also spread the story of how the poor desperate fool is trying to force you to do a love spell for them since they cant attract someone on their own.
Whatever you decide to do, I'd suggest staying away from curses and hexes and such. All that is going to accomplish is to bring negative energy into your life. Plus, it's considered bad form to put curses on people who do not practice magick themselves, because they don't have any way to defend themselves from it.
Just thought I'd throw that in, since a lot of people were suggesting it.
don't worry about it... She can't threaten you... You are the witch here... First of all explain her that her attitude may affect the spell you ll be the one who ll cast it so if I was her I would treat you nicely... And just warn her not to mess with you she obviously believes in magick to ask you that so... make her think that if she mess with you... you ll mess with her... Anyway if you want a love spell anyway mail me and I ll find something for you... Though I don't support that kind of spells
