Emotional and mental abuse is just as serious as verbal and physical. As mentioned above, your friend needs to get out while she can.
Most of us who have been in situations similar understand the " I can't leave I have no where to go", "what about my children, I can't provide for them", "he's going to change, he said so".
They can leave, the children will be better off and no, he will never ever change. EVER.
Make the calls, find a support system and get her out. That's the best way to help.
And for the record, people who distrust their partners for no apparent reason do so because of guilt of their OWN actions.
I agree with nevermore..she needs to take a long good look at her situation and get out. they promise you the world and make it like you can't live without them but being that i've also been in this situation before i can honestly tell you that he will not change and he will get worst as time goes on..she needs to get out and find a battered shelter to temporarily stay at till she can get on her feet and provide for herself and her children..Please tell her don't wait till it becomes violent to finally leave because in most cases it can turn out very very bad...Trust me...
A binding spell spoecifially to the problem should help, until she can leave him, which she needs to do.
How creepy is that? Those cameras would end up in someones rear end if they did that to me.
I do hope that your friend leaves, the abuse will ponly get worse, and that IS abuse, and he may abuse the children as well.
All women deserve a partner who treats them like gold no like trash.
I have a good binding spell that does not harm the person, but stops an specified action, if interested pm me.
"All women deserve a partner who treats them like gold no like trash."
You could also look at it another way, the husband is just over protective without realising it. And the woman is being treated like gold, who sets up surveillance cameras for trash?
An abuser, thats who. If you love someone you trust them if you dont trust them dont be with them. By setting up cameras he is making a statement loud and clear that he thinks she is "triflin", and needs to be watched like a freaking animal in a cage.
Thats not love. It is nothing remotely close to love. That is sickness.
I agree with the others. You might also want to do a spell to increase money if finances are a problem. She might be a little strapped for cash if she leaves, and it would be best to make leaving as easy as possible.
I'd also like to add that the abuse gets worse. He will continue to treat her like an object he can possess because that's what he thinks of her: she's an item to own.
Support her and prevent her from going back if she tries to. She doesn't deserve to be treated like a toy.
