Is it Just Me?

For me using magick to manipulate someone else into loving you is playing God. If they were meant to be with me they would be with me already. If I'm doing any sort of love spell its to attract the person who IS already meant to be with me to me.

The only love spells that I believe would work is one that just helps you find love. From what I heard they would usually backfire or not work if you are trying to control someone. Maybe influencing what already there?

i agree that a spell to help find love is ok... depends on what you do but even influencing whats already there seems wrong to me (just my opiniion not trying to offend) I feel like if u influence the love to be stronger you could be preventing a breakup when you r suppossed to split. I feel that love is something special and sacred and shouldnt be messed with at all and i mean no offense to anyone by the things i just wrote.
Blessed be,
AliRose

I would never use a love spell. First of all it meens you are desperate and it is wrong to mess with other people's will. You could ruin there life or your own.

i have a love spell that just sparks a flame in the persons heart so they have feelings for you but if the flame dies they're free to go

Hmm.. I find this kind of ironic. We were just talking about this last night. Funny I had the same opinion before reading this thread. ;)
Haha, anyway, yes. I think love spells are wrong because they mess with the free will of another. Your completly destroying the beauty of chance and fate by forceing something to happen. I personally think love is more beatiful and more intense I'd it is created in natural causes. I would feel like I am cheating myself out of my soul mate by forcing a relationship.

Ali, I don't decide to do anything without carful, cautious calculations about every possible outcome, but when I do decide upon a course of action I do what I must to achieve said action, if that entails maipulating somone to get what I need or to in turn manipulate somthing/somone else, then I'll do it, because its neccesary. Do I like to? not particularly, but I do what I must, because I must.

i respect our choice, even though i dont agree with it :P its your choice :D
Blessed be,
AliRose

well sombodies in a tolerant mood today lol

xD im in a zen mood today