Hi, does anyone have a "road opener" spell. or I think that's what I need or what it's called. I didn't find anything on the site.
I'd like to do one in conjunction with a reconciliation spell for an ex who told me he still has strong feelings for me but for whatever reason, doesn't want to go down that path again (mainly out of fear of getting hurt a second time.)
Saying he's afraid because he doesn't want to get hurt a second time implies to me being in a relationship with you hurt him a first time. I take it that's what happened?
well, yes. Not because I hurt him but bc he felt like the relationship failed and that caused him great hurt. If that makes no sense this is what happened: I pressured him endlessly to go to the next level. As a result, things between us turned tense which caused him to decide the relationship was a "failure" and he walked. and has been hurt and mourning (both of us, really) ever since. that kind of hurt. I didn't betray him or lie to him or anything like that.
not sure if that helps but that's what happened.... thanks
At the top of this site is a Search option for within the site. Type in Honey Jar spell and I believe the first link to pop up. It will tell you how to make one and should be of some help.
Thanks. I'm actually doing a honey jar spell this week but was thinking maybe I had the wrong spell. He already has feelings for me. He is already drawn to me but stops himself from taking it any further. We're disgustingly gaga when we see each other but he makes an obvious effort to keep boundaries. because he's "convinced" we don't work. So I thought I needed some sort of "remove the blockage spell."
I'm new at this. Am I making sense? That's why I asked about the Remove the Road Block spell.
Allow me to point out that in the thirty-five years I've been doing this magical stuff one of the firmest conclusions I've reached is that magic is almost certainly the WORST possible tool for fixing a relationship problem. At best it's like trying to drive tacks with a 20-lb sledgehammer.
Have you ever considered just sitting down with your ex and talking with him frankly and honestly, without evasions or half-truths, about how you feel about him? Or asking him to speak with you in the same way about how he feels? And have the two of you ever considered couples counseling? From where I sit, this looks like a problem rooted in unrealistic expectations compounded by poor communication, and thisng like that can be fixed far more easily by mundane means than they can by magic.
Hi Fragarach, I appreciate the feedback. We have talked. Honestly and openly as you said but he's stuck. or blocked. No matter how right he says I may he he keeps repeating that the fact that we turned tense when a problem arose proves that we don't work as a couple. He doesn't understand that that can happen and couples can work through it. He also repeats endlessly that he never again wants to go through those difficult times again and that's why he's turned away. Despite that he says our year together was the happiest of his life and he continues to have feelings for me. (We're in our 30s)
All I ask is to give it another go which is impossible with someone too afraid to try. So I just want to remove that blockage. and see...
Road-Opener (also called Blockbuster) is more of a recipe family of spiritual products - condition oils, bath products, candles, floorwashes, powders, etc., but it also refers to the spellwork associated with these products.
All quality Road-Opener supplies have a particular herb in it called Abre Camino along with various citrus ingredients and other cleansing botanicals. Many, many practitioners use road-opening spiritual work in conjunction with other spellwork to shake up a stubborn case, remove obstructions in the work, and open up possibilities. I really like it in combination with employment workings.
Here's a reputable link with spell ideas:
http://www.luckymojo.com/roadopener.html
As an aside, some practitioners do road-opening candlework with gun powder. When/if the candle explodes, the blockage has been removed. Obviously i don't recommend this.
I'm going to have to agree with fragarach on this one. Magick is no good for relationships I've learned my lesson from it but sitting down and talking is no better. What i have to tell you is you really need to spark whatever got you 2 together in the first place I dont got a clue what it was but instead of talking do something go out have some fun and work on getting him attracted to you, if you figured out that hes just gona say the same thing everytime you sit down and talk then its about dam time you take action theres a time to let things flow and a time to do things your way and for you in this case its do things your way
sorry for the double post but something to help you understand a bit better, say that you have a guy on steroids and a guy with natural muscles who do you think is going to look better? obiviouis the guy whos natural and thats what you want you want a natural good relationship, im not saying magick is a drug but if used wrong it can be way worse, and in this case its wrong
