Rid past from his heart

My current man and I are very happy and in love. But I have recently been able to put my finger on the thing that is holding him back from proposing to me. His girlfriend from high school, 22 yrs ago. He is very open and talks to me about every past relationship but her. I just questioned him about her and got confirmation there is something in him still hurting from her and wont let her go completely. I'm trying to put together a spell to cleanse this past heartache from his heart, the energies from his house and body, and open him more to me and a future with me. Suggestions please?

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How long have you been with this person?

almost a year

I would really appreciate some suggestions. Herbs, parts of spell ideas, anything.

He has to be a part of whatever you. He should want to let go or else it wont work or worse it may backfire... I would talk to him if I were you. If he didnt wanna talk, I'd leave it be and enjoy the present and look forward to the future...

Thank you Magiwoman. I know what you speak is true. Considering he is willing to let me help him let go magically, any ideas?

talk to him and ask for any mementos he still has from this 22 yr gone relationship if any, take them.
smudge the house.
place a love satchet under your bed.
and if you feel the need, cast a spell of release using the mementos.

You need to talk with each other.

That is what relationships need, you cant go behind each others backs casting spells for this or that. That will only weaken a relationship.

Like i said in mail.. a year is nothing, a guy wont usually propose after a year xP

The only reason a person would hold onto something for 22 yrs is if it was big, though you dont even know for sure if that is it. You're only answer and solution is to talk to him. Get him to tell you what is wrong, if it is anything.

just allow him to do what he wants to share when the time comes it comes.

Thank you for the spell suggestions. I am not planning on doing anything behind his back. I am waiting for him to come to me when he's ready to talk about it. I have talked to him. The only spells I will cast until he does are ones to protect our relationship.