Hey everyone.
So about a week ago I cast a candle love spell on Friday of the full moon. It was on my ex boyfriend (we broke up a few weeks ago). The very next day I contacted him and he seemed much nicer to me, but that soon ended.
We are on speaking terms now to an extent. I don't think the spell worked, or it only worked a small bit. And I'd also like to say that yes, I used this spell as a last resort.
Would it be okay to do a bottle love spell after doing the spell I did a week ago?
At the moment I have a used wine bottle which I rinsed out and am leaving out in the sun to dry off now. If the other spell was going to eventually work, would this bottle spell cancel it out/ruin something?
Hey my names Willow, and I just wanted to let you know that it is highly unlikely that the spell your wanting to do will cancel it the other, in magick when you aim energy onto a single desire, even at different points, adding more energy to the same desired affect can only increase its affectiveness. But you might want to be careful cause if the other spell is just late to work you may end up getting him to start liking you from the first spell and before you know it the second spell could send him over the edge forcing him to feel love or obsession by magick which is kind of bad. lol. Anyway wait a little longer for the first spell and if it doesnt work go ahead and try the second one, just remember not to affect free will.
Just one question, if he wants to break up with you why are you forcing him through magic to help you? I'm just wondering why you would want someone who doesn't love you to love you? If your using a love spell against someone than it isn' real. If you really loved this person than you would want them to love you out of their own accord, not by some spell that could possibly come back and have disastrous consequences. Alright, I know everyone doesn't believe in the rule of three so, I'm putting that out there. Remember, whatever you do in life comes back at you three times. So, please be nice to him and let him use his free will whether to love you or not, just a suggestion.
Love spells for reconciliation need a lot of energy. They are rarely, if ever, a one-shot-and-you're-done type of situation. Your first spell lit a spark, he called you and seemed sweeter, and then the energy fizzled out.
If yu're serious, you need to do a long-standing spell that you work daily or once a week, like every Friday. A container spell is a good choice because you can keep giving energy to it, either some sort of bottle spell or a honey jar spell.
@BirdLover101 - I realize it's ridiculous, but it's what my heart is set on.
@LdyGry - thank you for your input :) if I were to start this spell tonight and seal the cork onto my bottle, would I just have to meditate with the bottle every day and send energy? Or add ingredients to my bottle?
I like jars with metal lids so that i can burn candles over top of them. The wax builds up and runs down the sides in a beautiful way on jars that a person has worked for a while.
Depending on your spell, i would make an altar of whatever kind you can, put your bottle on the altar - if you can keep it out in the open where you live - and pray/visualize over it every day. Burn fixed candles next to it, rose incense, work a pair of Lodestones nearby, whatever. You can hold the bottle in your hands while you pray, calling his name aloud, gently hugging it or giving it a couple turns to "love him up" and "stir up" his affections.
I have many spells/articles on my blog on reconciliation, if you're so inclined: http://ldygry.livejournal.com
love spells are just a way for you to force someone to love you. it does nothing but harm to the person your forcing to love you. if you go through with it, it will come back to bite you in the butt three times. remember the law of three.
