summon of a dead aunt

OK, so i have been doing Wicca for sometime now and I seem to be having a little trouble with this one. I am trying to summon a very loved and missed dead aunt of mine, I have managed to get my spell to work to the point of being able to feel her hand on my shoulder but I am trying to be able to see her face to face, even if only for a moment. I am a strong believer that I can succeed, I am only wondering if anyone has any suggestions. When I do my spells I use candles and chanting.

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I know how hard it is and how much we miss them, But at the thought of having my loved one held back from their appointed destiny with the creator, Goddess, or what you consider the higher source in my opinion is not a proper action. in my other belief system we would say that the soul returns in seven years to learn the next lesson,after you've learned all your lessons you do not come back you become one with the higher source and universe.
Blessings and providence:
Rogelio21

When you are going to summon your aunt spirit i don't think that she will have the same feelings about you!

That's not what I heard and thankfully not what I believe or want to believe in. Becoming one with the greater universe sounds absolutely terrifying. I do not want to be consumed by some greater force and stop existing as a separate being. That is precisely what becoming one with God or the higher powers means in my opinion. Being your own person and remaining in the Summerland sounds much more reasonable. You also have a choice, as I have been told, of completely renewing your soul, forgetting everything you have learned thus far and becoming a Starsoul again. A Starsoul is someone who has never been to this plane of existence. Think of it as pressing the reset button on a video game. You come to this plane of existence again and have to learn new life lessons as well as the ones that you have already learned over again. This is what I choose to believe.

Now back to the subject at hand, I believe that your dead aunt will stick around rather or not you cast a spell to keep her bound to you. I truly doubt that she would leave you until you are willing to fully let her go.

When you know she is there, why don't you astrally project and meet her? Or better yet summon her while you are astral? You'll be able to speak to her, feel her, and see her perfectly. I've known a few people who have done this. If she is so willing to make the effort, than obviously she wants it just as much as you do. Not every spirit wishes to reunite once they've pasted on. They feel sadness over the people they left behind, just as much as you feel sadness over the loss of them. Everyone deals with grief differently. Some need that closure of one last meeting. I think both of you do.

Good luck and blessings.
If you have any questions about what I've written, feel free to pm me.

Ever thought about going to her?

what kind of incense are you using, it sounds like your haing a issue with manifestation which can be aided with incenses that have a spiritual and yet earthen vibe that gives the spirits you summon some body so to speak. If your allready using a dark arts incense or necromantic incense try burning sweetgrass to call up ancestors and pleasent spirits or wormwood to really get the summoning going you could also mix dirt from her grave with this to give it more of a folky hoodoo feel, but if your a bit more willing and if shes a blood relative adding a single drop of blood from your finger obtained by a tiny prick froma sterilized lancet an work wonders when calling up ones ancestors. However alot of times you can bypass your own blood by using red wine or pomegranate juice as a offering with a petition to hekate or persephone to help with the evocation.