At the risk of sounding completely insane, I have a question: Can a person have a more than platonic relationshp with one of their spirit guides(or other spirits)? Mine lies next to me sometimes when I fall alseep. I even felt it lightly touching my hand and stuff. Other than that I think Im starting to have more than just friendly feelings for it, which of course, I dont want!
Problem is, now I feel really awkward whenever I have anything to do with my spirit guides or any spirits in general. Am I overthinking this?
sometimes yes, sometimes no. i've heard of spirits loving the living and vise versa. in fact, i read somewhere that you could be with any creature in the astral plane. granted if a powerful being likes you, it doesn't matter what plane you're on lol. if it's your spirit guide you could bring it up to him/her. myself i have a spirit with me, i think at one point he liked me, in fact he's said quite a few times he wants me, but i chalk it up to him messing with me. i've said no and he just makes a joke and moves on. while it is possible, if it's your spirit guide, that means you two are very close, and it's fine to bring it up to it, the spirit should understand. if not, give it some space. be sure though to explain, it's still has feelings, and you can hurt them. the only differences a spiteful spirit is something you don't want.
Re: Spirits and the like By: WhiteRav3n / Knowledgeable
Post # 4 Feb 17, 2012
If you believe in past lives, this spirit may be a past lover. That might go badly if you find someone who loves you in this life. I think it is best to communicate and find out, and make sure he won't get involved if you fall in love in this life with another man. Spirit guides are most commonly people who are connected to us in some way, some are ancestors, others are kindred spirits, and still others are past loves who wish to protect and guide the one they care so deeply for. Usually past loves stay away from their partner while they are in a life, because otherwise, jealousy and anger can brew.
Another possibility is this is merely his way of connecting to you. Feeling him next to you may be him influencing your dreams while you sleep. Many guides touch the hand of the one they are guiding in order to impress emotions or thoughts and at the same time validate their presence to you.
But you said "guides" and "spirits" which means more than one. There are certain spiritual beings (not guides) that will try to be intimate with a physical person. You can find this in nearly every culture all over the world by various names. You may want to be completely sure what you're dealing with because you don't seem very sure about anything concerning these spirits. Never believe anything a spirit tells you, they can lie just as well as anyone else. Actions speak louder than words. If you tell it/them to stop doing this and/or to leave you alone because it makes you uncomfortable, and they do not, then they don't truly have any concern for you or your feelings and you should consider banishment and protections.
Thank you for your thorough answers. The only reason this is a problem is that I have a long term boyfriend and this seems to be interfering in my relationship.
I almost wrote a book once about how a girl fell in love with a ghoast, and they would haveto wait until she died to be together. I think it could be romantic. Just sex is one thing, but love is NEVER wrong:)
