I really need help.

I really do... Or else I will go completely insane. I'm in love with someone. This person admitted to being physically attracted to me but doesn't care enough to really be in a relationship with me, claiming that it's pointless because of the distance etc. (we're both single though).
I can't think about anything else, I feel like I'm completely obsessed and possessed and if I won't at least get a chance to prove this person how happy I can make him, I will really lose my sanity. Please, don't think I'm some highschooler who has a crush on someone, I'm not, I'm actually and adults as far as the law is concerned. I really, really deeply care about this person and I've never had such feelings towards anybody else.
I have tried many different attraction/love spells but nothing worked. I even tried black magic spell, involving blood sacrifice a few days ago (and almost burned down my house immediately after, accidentally....). Still.. nothing. I haven't heard from my love interest for weeks.
Please, tell me what can I do. At least, what can I do to make this person contact me, even a stupid text. I will take care of the rest. I just want to be given a chance.
I am really serious about this and I'm ok even with dark spells.
So please, if you can, help me because I really don't know what to do anymore.

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If im honest your not supposed to use love/ attraction spells or whatever because no matter how YOU may feel if the other person does not then it is not meant to be. Think about it youd rather him have true love and for him to be happy instead of artificial love right ? otherwise if you do not want this then you obviously don't care about him enough sorry couldnt be much more help

I said it doesn't have to be a lovespell (though I'm ok with everything, even black magic spells.. I do realize it makes me a bit selfish).. I've asked, what can I do to make this person contact me.
But thanks for replying to my post anyway.

There are some spells to make someone contact you soon after the spell or, you might try dream speaking. There ard a couple of those spells on this site.

I would do this spell as a last resort:

Have you tried a graveyard dirt spell? I did this to reconcile with my ex once: You go to the grave of either someone who loved you in life(it can even be a pet that passed away) or someone that you dont know but has loved in life. You take one handful of the dirt on the grave situated above the heart, and remember ALWAYS leave an offering if you take from the gravyard(it can be a shiny penny, or some tobbacco).
The origin of this spell is Hoodoo and it consists of a spirit helping you soften the heart of the person you love, making them contact you and think of you.

Once you have the dirt, get a green sheet of paper, and some vandal root. Write your name and his name on the sheet of paper, then put the graveyard dirt and the vandal root inside. Wrap it up nicely and keep under your bed.

Nate321, thanks, I will try to find them. I'm new to this site so I have still ha a lot 'exploring' to do.

Curiousgirl, I haven't tried that one. Does it have to be the grave of either someone who loved me in life or someone that I don't know but has loved in life? Unfortunately, I live thousand miles from my relatives graves (or even people I ever knew, like friends etc.). Can it be some random grave? I often go to that old elementary, I'm sure that some of those people had loved while they were alive.. Thank you very much.

Dont worry you can use any grave, I couldnt use a specific grave either in my spells. as long as you leave an offering in return. The best thing to do would be to choose a grave which appeals to you,one that feels right to you.I just let my intuition guide me on which grave I use, Ive had great experiences with graveyard dirt spells, I even visit the cemetary where I got the dirt from just to pay my respects.

So let me get this 'straight'. Your in love with him BUT the distance is what separates you ? Why aren't you at least visiting him so he can see all that you've written here ?

Unfortunately love spells seem to make the person casting them more obsessed in my opinion. From what I've experienced and read though, you really have to cast them and then let them go, the more you obsess and dwell on them waiting for results the longer they take. The moment you forget about them you seem to get results. Sometimes you even have to wait for the person to grow up a bit and by then you probably won't even care about hearing from him in my experience. Also they don't seem to change the person so you might hear from him and get together but he will still be the same flawed person. So if you can forget about it and just be confident that the spell will work when the time is right, you can make the most of enjoying the present. Good luck.

Curiousgirl, ok, thank you for clarifying that. I will definitely try this spell.


Spellcaster, we live in a different cities but it's not that far, in my opinion (about an 1.5h if you have a car). But, he's really busy with work, I'm busy with studies so we wouldn't be able to meet that often. Personally, I don't mind... But it seems like he does. I'm not visiting because I don't want to impose on him. Thanks for replying in my topic.

blackcat101, I think that's a good point, it actually does make the person casting the spell even more obsessed, at least in my case. I can try not to think about it so much but it's really difficult.. especially since I have dreams about this person almost every night. Thanks for replying.


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Just noticed that I made some errors in my first post, sorry.