Hello. I am somewhere between the boundaries of studier and practitioner.I've been studying the occult, and Paganism for many years.I've even tried a few spells.Some of which seemed to work, and others not so much.
In light of my lack of real experience (seems most spells require purchases for things I can never afford.) I am currently pondering the idea of a spell that would rid me of my desire for love, or a companion.
I've had nothing but bad luck and disappointment with past relationships. For the most part none of these people would ever let me get to that level with them.I get tired of seeing everyone I know be so happy, and gain prosperity in so many aspects of life so much easier than myself.In fact....it hasn't happened for me at all.None of it.
So back to the main point that all of this is related to...
Is there a spell that works, that will allow me to rid myself of the desire to have a spouse and a meaningful relationship?Perhaps make me asexual and be able to live alone without it ever crossing my mind that I am alone?
I'm thinking my mental state would have to change to match something like Sheldon from 'The Big Bang Theory".(Just as an example.He has no feelings of the need to be in a relationship with anyone, and is perfectly content with having just a few friends.)
You cannot change who you are. That's a fact. If you are bot asexual, you will never be. You can, however, love something, or a thought, or whatever it is (maybe an entity) to loose your need for love.
However, if you desire love, but you don't want to desire it, it should be easy to get rid of it. Put awau these feelings, or try a spell to absorb your desire.
You cannot change who you are. That's a fact. If you are bot asexual, you will never be. You can, however, love something, or a thought, or whatever it is (maybe an entity) to loose your need for love.
However, if you desire love, but you don't want to desire it, it should be easy to get rid of it. Put away these feelings, or try a spell to absorb your desire.
I would suggest doing a spell to rid yourself of the negative emotions you are feeling, or even to bind yourself to happiness. Both are easy to create on your own and will give you similar effects to what you are asking for. You cant rid yourself of the desire for a mate. That is hard wired into your human genetics lol. L.L.B ~ Angie
Why not try something to make you feel better, and not so discouraged by relationships. "Making" you asexual is called chemical castration and that's what they used to do to child molesters back in the 1960s. It's not pretty. It can't be healthy to try and use magic to suppress your romantic desire altogether.
You could try a spell to help you find a (near)ideal lover.
Good luck.
You are far too lovely to give up completely. Love has a habit of appearing when you least expect it and can transform your entire life. Perhaps what you seek has not shown itself to you yet because you simply are not personally ready yet. Or perhaps you are looking in all the wrong places.
People today always want immediate results for everything. Unfortunately, the universe has its own time schedule and things happen when they are meant to. Are you familiar with the Law of Attraction? Learn the principles of it and work on yourself first. Immerse yourself in REALLY learning who DarkWillow truly is and what she has to offer others and the world. Find out why you chose to enter this life. Find your meaning and you will find true happiness.
"chemical castration and that's what they used to do to child molesters back in the 1960s"
Too bad they stopped that...
anyways thanks for the advice everyone. As far as the universe waiting until I am ready, etc etc. I just feel frustrated because I am worried I am doomed to wait til I am nearly 40 before the right one comes along. I am 25 and a single mother to boot. Stress from raising a kid alone, plus many other things almost guarantees my looks will not last. I know it may be cruel, but I just don't want to have to wait until my life is half over and I've past my prime.
You just illustrated EXACTLY in your reply what I was presenting in my post. It is more than obvious that you carrying around extreme negativity at the moment. The faster YOU change YOU, the faster you will obtain what you desire. The negative emotions you are casting off are probably playing a huge role in not meeting what you seek. Yes, raising a child by yourself is not easy, but don't let that drag you down or you will never achieve what you desire. Accept it and move on. No guy is going to want a woman full of rage and negativity. Think about it...
Change your routine. Take a class, take your baby to the park, etc. If you keep meeting losers it is probably because you keep doing the same thing expecting different results. Einstein called that insanity. If you want to change things then change what you are doing day by day.
As far as your looks are concerned, that again is up to you. There are many beautiful women in their 40's or 50's that raised children on their own while in their 20's. Your life is far from over so do not give up. You may have been knocked to the ground, but get up, dust yourself off, and move forward. That is the challenge of life. How serious is your condition vs someone in their 20's that just found out they have cancer and less than a year to live? Or how about someone that parties and gets into an accident and loses an arm, or both arms? Do you REALLY think that your situation is that bad compared with these scenarios???
Change your attitude and I predict you will be happily married before you even reach 27. Don't change and you may find yourself on a l-o-n-g, lonely trail.... Find and read a book called Love is an Attitude. It may start you on a new more loving path. ;)
