1: Listen harder. We already know that proactive listening should be your first social skill. We know this because we love when people listen to us, so we find it safe to assume that other people love when we listen to them.
2: Be considerate. Once youve listened, its time to act accordingly. If there was anything about the persons tone of voice or body language that gave a hint as to how they were feeling, use that information in your interaction.
3: Keep your promise. By keeping your word to someone, you not only establish yourself as a person of integrity, but make the other person feel as though you value them.
4: Be on time. Another way to demonstrate that you value someone, is by treating their time as though it is valuable. Nothing says this better than being punctual.
5: Have manners. This is pretty simple. Do not interrupt a conversation, be polite and watch your please and thank you. By showing manners towards someone, you make them feel valuable.
6: Encourage. Sometimes when we hear a silly idea, its easy to shoot down someones hopes and dreams, or otherwise make them feel unimportant. Genuinely encouraging someone could be very empowering and liberating.
7: Be fair. We often find ourselves in a position of power over someone else; to some extent. Having power enables the opportunity to be corrupt. Avoid corruption, give people what they earn-deserve, and theyll appreciate it.
8: Go out of your way. You dont have to always do the bare minimum. If you want to show someone that theyre valuable, and that you respect them, go the extra mile without expecting a reward.
9: Preserve dignity. When wronged, mistreated, or otherwise upset in some way handle the dispute with finesse. This means approaching the person in such a way as to preserve their dignity. The best way to handle it is via a calm and private conversation, as opposed to a public screaming match.
10: Do Not Assume. They say when you ASSUME, you make an AS$- out of -U- and -ME. So dont assume anything about a person based on their race, income level, or gender. Start off each interaction by thinking of the other person as your equal.
Re: 10 ways to show respect By: DarkAnubis27
Post # 2 Jun 25, 2008
respecet huh...yeah..maybe YOU should read these over one more time..ROSE...and you forgot one important one that i dont see.."THE GOLDEN RULE" ...you must GIVE respect...to GET it...
Re: 10 ways to show respect By: White_Rose
Post # 3 Jun 25, 2008
I have always shown YOU respect. I have NEVER brought you down in front of anyone. I was the ONE who fought your corner when YOU had your accident.
All the SHIT that was said about you UPSET ME and you never knew how much that hurt....NO ONE DID!!!
So DONT tell ME I have NO respect for others.
Read No.7 - No.10 PLEASE
Re: 10 ways to show respect By: White_Rose
Post # 4 Jun 25, 2008
So all the shouting match in front of OUR members was showing respect to ME?
What made you decide to write this? It is a very well done peice, great detail into all the steps, and shows some of the less thought of necessities, in making any relationship (with freinds, lovers, strangers, a success. Very well done, and very truthful
Re: 10 ways to show respect By: SilverVixen
Post # 6 Jun 26, 2008
Wow......that's all I have to say. Good points though
Re: 10 ways to show respect By: White_Rose
Post # 7 Jun 26, 2008
"Kind hearts are the gardens,
Kind thoughts are the roots,
Kind words are the flowers,
Kind deeds are the fruits.
Take care of your garden
And keep out the weeds,
Fill it with sunshine
Kind words and kind deeds."
Author:Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
Re: 10 ways to show respect By: osiris777
Post # 8 Jun 26, 2008
we all have a spark of the DIVINE.if we treat each other as if we were ourselves the DIVINE then the world would be a better place.
Re: 10 ways to show respect By: DarkAnubis27
Post # 9 Jun 27, 2008
Your right baby..that was disrespectful..i apologize to you and the coven for my selfish little misfit..i am truly sorry...
Re: 10 ways to show respect By: White_Rose
Post # 10 Jun 27, 2008
I suppose we both had a part of it, I'm sorry too.
Anyone who witnessed these arguements, please accept my apologies.