I've been performing non-manipulative love spells to return my ex, and ones to rebuild and strengthen our soul bond. Funny thing is I've noticed an oddly large increase in women being very "forward" towards me. A lucky break for some, however this is the antithesis of what I'm working.......and no, this is far from enjoyable, and kind of disturbs me. Any help or insight?
these women are of less than healthy relationship quality. My original one that I'm attempting to regain was actually quite healthy and stable. A momentary issue arose in myself creating a rift. Long story short, I had to ditch the past, and parts of myself that weren't beneficial to me or her or anyone else. I started making me a better me, and a better man for her. No I didn't cheat or anything like that, I had some depression issues to deal with that I couldn't allow to affect anyone again, and I was a shameful recluse that couldn't face her for about a month, abandoning her and making her feel alone....making me more shameful so I ended the cycle. I'm making things right, putting it all back where it belongs. I've tried moving on,e and there is something inside encouraging me to keep trying, stay hopeful, committed and have faith. While in my past I would have found these women attractive, they are more superficial, temporary pleasures. I closed the shallow part of
good call friend! I think you should move forward to regain your love. I wouldnt worry much about these other girls. Unless its really disturbing you where you cant sleep at night. well i dont reall know what to suggest because I dont exactly know what your working with.
I'm doing candle based love spells with the addition of some of her personal effects I have. I'm cleansing the area, myself, and grounding myself to be certain I'm free of any negativity. I begin by casting protection over myself prior to any ritual or spell, then meditating on charging myself up. I begin to praise the godess and god for their love, and protection. Then I start the spell by lighting the candles and focusing a clear mental image of my ex.and myself during some happy moments we had and mentally sending my selfless, unconditional love her way. Of course I say my chant many times over, thank the godess and god for hearing my cry, snuff the candles, and break everything down. I'm performing this almost every night, with the exception of friday where I perform a bath based love/soul bond strengthening spell. I perform the candle one around 1:30-2:00am and the bath one around 11:00pm. It too uses candles, and some herbs. Honey, thyme, and been thinking about adding cinnamon and some type of oil to tweak it, not entirely sure though. All candles used for this one are pink, two in fact. Thinking about using red and gold to represent her and myself as well. A fairly warm bath is drawn, I add the herbs and spices, light the two pink candles placed behind my left and right shoulders. Praise the godess, ask for her to heed r, say my prayer while picturing my ex during our rlationship, happy and visualizing our souls intimate in uhh......let's just say a loving, sexual way where the sexual part is just a.means FOR us to touch each others soul and connect on that level. I think about her in various, positive ways during the spell focusing my love and our souls bonding. I get out after I'm waterlogged, of course after thanking the godess, snuff the candles and clean up. I've checked and double checked, and triple checked my chants to make sure they were clear in what I need. One odd thing did happen with the bath spell, the candle over my right shoulder dripped down and onto my shoulder during the spell. As of this moment I'm thinking the candle was slightly uneven and just did what gravity dictates, open to it being a "sign" though. The wax actually didn't burn me, and I didn't notice until I gotup. During each one I feel a deep rush down my spine and during the bath spell I find my whole body tingles and almost vibrates while focusing my energy in the water. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong, they need tweaks, or I'm just not powerful enough yet to these spells. Having a cold these past few weeks hasn't helped, I know. Just would like some advice on all this or suggesting some other techniques. Perhaps I may even ask a caster to do it for me from this point on in, someone with a great deal of experience in this department. Any help is appreciated!
