Love spells and others

So I'm new here and I'm not sure how to phrase this.
I haven't regularly practiced casting in a few years so I feel a bit rusty, but after a conversation with an old friend and a break up I have begun to try and reconnect with the things that have brought me comfort...such as magic.

Anywho my question is about love spells, but can apply to other more coercive magics. Recently my wonderful long distance boyfriend broke up with me. Repeatedly he has stated that he wished that he loved me like he used to (he loves me as his best friend but romantically he doesn't quite feel for me.)

This isn't a moral question...but even if he does not know about my casting would trying a love spell to reignite his passion for me be unfavorable or have an impact on the success rate?

If a person wants the same result as the caster does it matter? Does the spell in particular matter?

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Most love spells don't work. And the ones that do don't last for ever. In your situation id give it time and see how he feals. He may start to miss you and be like all up set. And that weird thing that happens when you randomly call some one you have not spoken to in a while and that person is like hay I was just thinking of you. I think that will happen.

Let nature take it's course. Forcing someone to go against their free will is such a bad thing. It may bring your ex back but will it be their true feelings? No it will be because your forced them back to you and end badly if they come back at all. These back fire 9x's out of 10

Sue is right here. Don't do it unless you want to be with an emotionless "robot" like ex.

You should not cast a love spell but if you are considering it let me leave you with this:
A Voodoo priestess daughter once liked a man but he was in love with another.Some men arent always faithful though so she used magic to get his attention.He trusted her and soon after she had two children for him.The woman being greedy casted a love spell to make him hers and after that they were together for a long while.Except not the way she planned he never proposed marriage,they never lived together and he cheated on her with every girl in sight.True story I know the both of them.
My point is that love spell your thinking on doing may work but do you want a person whose drawn to you only because of a spell.You would be trapping him and thats not right.If you truly love him you would let him go and be happy when/if he finds another.Just be grateful that he is still apart of your life.

But if you are desperate there are other alternatives.If said person wanted the same results you wont be posting this.The spell does not really matter much but your intention does.Either way like I said there are alternatives.

Kiva this applies in honey jar spells as well? And if you know that the person love you?

If the person loves you or has any sort of feelings towards you then the spell would be enhancing those feelings.Honey jar spells in my opinion aren't bad but then again it is all up to the caster and there intention.its an enchantment spell which is a weak love spell it wont have the full blown affect as a love spell but it will make you seem to be more likeable/desirable to the person.

Kiva you're right about intention when it comes to the honey jar spell. The caster could do it with the wording and intention "love me". If the caster meditated and used visualization while burning candles on top of the jar it could create a very potent spell over time.

So basically if I used a honey jar spell only having read the basics would it work?

Its 50-50.A spell will only work if you believe in it and understand the basics.Casting a spell more than once may help but only in certain cases such as this.Visualize the outcome you want and will it to happen and only do a spell if you are comfortable with it otherwise it may not work.
A spell is only as strong as you make it.