Spell for abused???

Hello.

I am wondering if I could solicit some help from the community. I have a sticky love situation. I have been involved with a man for 6 years. He is a victim of sexual abuse in his childhood years and that abuse has surfaced as a barrier to our relationship. He gets flashbacks of sexual abuse when he has contact or even sexual thoughts about me. He recently broke up with me for this reason. Flashbacks daily is not a good human condition. For example. I was showing him a bruise high on my leg today and lifted my long pants to show him. Just the sight of my full thigh made him uncomfortable. We both admit that we love each other, but the struggle is too hard. I have used a simple sugar spell on him and think it is working, in that he feels so much love for me. He even asked if I have some kind of love potion!!! I am scared to try any spells to make him have desire for only me as I am reluctant to complicate his issues. I wish to help him heal so that we could have a chance to move forward. The priority here would be to:

Eliminate negative issues surrounding his abuse and its relation to our sexual relationship.

Gain his feelings of desire for me alone without the flashbacks. (there is a girl trying to move in on him)

Bring him back to our relationship.

Any help on strategies with spells will be greatly appreciated.

Thanks all!
KVA

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well there is no much to said about this,you only need some spells to do this and you shall be the only one im his heart without cheating on you

I'd do some healing work to compliment therapy.

Magic alone isn't going to solve the issue, and clearly he still needs to work through some things.

Definitely!

He is seeking therapy, but I don't want him to suffer in the meantime. The urgency is also centered around a girl that is after him and has helped convince him to leave me. Perhaps I can work on her first? Keep her out of the picture until he can get more help. She is really selfish and doesn't know how badly he is damaged.

Really anything that will ease his pain would be beneficial.

I'd hotfoot her.

cat Yronwode has an excellent guide that you can use based on what you can get from your target.

http://www.luckymojo.com/hotfoot.html

Thanks!

Seems like a pretty good one. She has hurt many others over the short time I have known her. The area would be good without her.

Anyone else have any ideas.

What a difficult situation.
Like Conjure Lady said Magick along with lots of therapy can help. Try some protection for him along with ridding of negative emotion crystals. Such as Rose Quartz or Snowflake Obsidian, etc...
As for the other lady, the hotfoot sounds good or a banishment spell might work.
I wish you the best.
Blessings

Thanks! I have given him snowflake obsidian before but without the knowledge. I will get it back into his hands right away.

I am gonna bump this back into the first page to see if any one else has any good ideas. Since I last posted things have gone much the same and my lover/friend is still breaking down. I have not hotfooted yet as I just now found out where the girl involved works, still don't know where she lives. I am hoping it will work when i place it at her job. She spends more time there than anywhere else anyway.

Thanks for any additional ideas out there.

-kva