permenent love spell

hi im completely ew at this, so don't know where to start, im in love with this girl and I kow she is in love with me, problem is she is married, she tells me that she wants to be with me but she is afraid to leave her husband? how can I get her to love me completely and leave her husband, we have been seeing each other on a daily basis and has been going on for about 7 months,

like I said I have no idea what to do or how to start, please help, what and where do I start???

I have photos of her and him photos of us, and hair from her,
thank you

The problem isn't one of love, it is that she is afraid to leave. Talk things out, and find a way to be together the old fashioned way or move on.

When you love someone truly, madly, deeply, then you take that extra step or leap to be with that person, no matter what the problem is. People give up successful careers, move countries and sometimes even give up their children when they're in love. In your case, if your girlfriend loves you enough, she would leave her husband. If she doesn't then she clearly loves her husband and her security more than she loves you.

If you do a spell, in all likelihood it will not work. Because its something she doesnt want to do. If it does work, it will be by force. Do you really think the two of you will happy if you'll are brought together by force?

Like Awaketoolong suggested, sort this out the old fashioned way or just move on

is there any spells, jars ect I can use?

Honey jar spells work to sweeten someone up. Not to make them fall in love with you or commit to you. If you do these spells with this intention, you'll only end up broken-hearted, disappointed and disillusioned.

I'm sorry Al. I understand that this is a difficult time for you. Matters of the heart are never easy

The reality is if you are completely new at this then you are not in a position to successfully cast a spell. Casting is not the place to start in the craft. This whole "in love with me but afraid to leave her husband" is a very common thing someone who is cheating on their spouse will say. If you truly love this woman and wish to spend your life with her then tell her how you feel and that you will be there waiting when she is free. For now she is with someone with whom she has taken vows of monogamy. Change is scary, but if she really loves you and wants to be with you instead of her husband then she will take the steps to divorce her current spouse. Cheating and sneaking around on a spouse are just distasteful and dishonorable.

Alex, first I would talk to her and try to work things out that way, otherwise I would give her an ultimatum and keep to it. Tell her that you cannot possibly continue this relationship, and that you will wait for her until she is able to leave her husband. Otherwise you are in danger more so than your girlfriend is, as it is a fairly common occurrence that the wife's secret lover gets his butt kicked or gets killed by the husband. It's very likely that she is just using you and coming up with excuses not to leave her husband. I wouldn't feed into this whole sordid affair any longer if I were you; I'd call it all off and tell her to choose who she really wants to be with. If she wants to be with you, she will be. If she doesn't, she won't.

My husband and I were living on opposite sides of the country when we first met and he moved to my area to be with me, he left behind his friends and the only real family he has. That shows love and dedication. Being unwilling to do so little as leave a spouse...well that's not really love or dedication to you, nor is it to the spouse as she obviously doesn't have problems cheating.

I think you should also consider this: if she is cheating on her husband with you now, what will she do when she's married to you?

Jar spells can help you, but in all honesty, something "stinks" with this all situation.

She's married, but you two have spent 7 months together, why?

She's "afraid" to leave her husband. Why? Is he abusive? What "securities" will she lose? Etc ...

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You've stated you're rather new to "casting".

Jar spells are fickle, little bastards, just like Loki.

So, you must be specific in your desire(s)or you will receive what you had asked for, not what you wanted.


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With rituals taking time to learn, and your "love's" motives being questionable, I'd suggest taking the time to talk to her.

Find out what's really going on in her head, her marriage, and go from there.

~ Never Lost