simply need help

hello everyone! Please advise if there is anything can be done to end my infatuation. I met a guy about a year ago. It took me about three months to get him to ask me out ( no spells, no magic, nothing, just flirting).We dated ( or whatever it was) for about 6 months or so, then he pulled away for whatever reasons he had, which is fine. It's been about 7 months now since we broke up. I cannot get him out of my mind! I feel like I was hypnotized. First, I thought to put a spell on him so he would feel the same feelings toward me, but then I realized I don't want him with help of magic, I want him to want me on his own, so I need something to get him out of my head. There are other guys I can pay attention to, but it seems like the universe goes around him. What is it? why can't I get him out of my head? He has very strong charismatic personality. I have a strong character as well but when I am around him I feel like a rabbit in front of a snake. How do I get my life back? I am pretty sure if calls/texts me tomorrow, I will follow him, but I don't want it. I want to be in control. Is there any recipe? Thank you!

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You need to write a ritual to remove the bond between you. Once an emotional link like this is broken, it can not be brought back with magick (only physically working on the relationship as you did when you created it). Be sure you really want to break your ties with this person.

My best suggestion is to meditate. In the room your meditating in light a frankincense and myrrh incense stick :D If your able to. Use 1 Black candle ( Black for negative energy draining ) and 1 white candle ( White for purity ) They can be both a chime, votive or pilar or other kinds but best if both are the same type of candle :D Hope this helps :D

I don't! That's the problem. You said I need to write my own spell. How do I do it? Is there a name for that? I have never done it so I have no idea what to look for or what to write. Thank you for your input. I really appreciate it. Reasoning is not working obviously, maybe magic will help.

Thank you DeathStar1 for your input. Seems like I need to go through some serious studying before attempting what you have suggested. I have no idea what it is all means.