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My son n grandchildren r in phoenix. The mother moved them their without even letting me say goodbye or knowing about it. She is very young n a me person. I am wondering if you have any suggestions on certain aspects as to how or what I should cast to be able to have contact. My oldest grandson just turned three. I raised him, the baby she had to have, but I kept him 12-16hours daily accept one day a week. Daniel the oldest needs to know that his nana loves him more than anything.Ive heard they told him I didn't want him anymore. He had to have nana. Poor baby n my son has been with me always til now. If theres anything you could suggest. I would b forever grateful as Ive tried many spells since March 26th n still nothing. Thank you

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Okay just realized where I posted accept my apology thank you

I got ur meaning, black cord binding vodou seems like a great one. Thank you

Having an empty nest can be very emotionally and psychologically difficult on a person.

I think there's more going on here, and possibly more than what you even realize.
Your focus seems to be on the mother, and what she did..yet you say your son has always been with you until he left. That means, he didn't tell you either and the key to solving this and getting communication back is finding out "why", which means looking at the situation objectively and seeing where you can take some of the blame.

Were you overbearing? Did they feel threatened or smothered? These are hard questions to ask, but necessary to find that peace.

I would suggest figuring out what caused them to do this..without putting blame on them. Step outside of the situation and try to understand it.

I would then do some cut and clear work to get rid of the hurt, and perhaps even the bad habits. When that is done, some block buster (road opening) work to open the lines of communication. It's important to get what ever it is that caused this situation removed (the actions, not the people) because if poor actions, blaming, anger, etc. remains there, then the situation doesn't improve. Especially since they now live in a state where there are no grandparent rights. You are at their mercy, so again..it's imperative to find out what the root issue is and work on that.

Arizona has grandparents rights. There are things that need to be proven, but yeah, they are there. Just wanted to clear that up.

Thanks Tombstone!

I was told there were none, but given the statute, my source may have been discussing their particular situation where the law couldn't help them.

You're welcome. Good luck!

The grandparents always win in the end.