is there anyone that can help my current situation. up until four months ago, my girlfriend of 10 years and i were madly in love with oneanother. we were inseperatable. we made a big move to miami beach, were i lost everything. my girl. i was working 80 hours a week. didnt have time to do the things i once did. life got stagnent. my family got her a job in a bank. were she met a jerk. she was not unfaithful, but she listened and looked up to this guy. my girl and i are very diferent. he reminded her of that everyday he saw her. bad mouthing me for my differences. she would start telling me these things he said. i didnt think much of it because i was so busy. i finally baught her a ring. i was so happy. her and her family looked it also. but he kept pushing. little by little she started fading away, hiding herself from me in her ipod. i predicted her leaving me six months later. i had no idea the effect it would have on me. people tell me she regrets was she done but still no answer or call. i love her with all my heart. ive tried to move on but to me no one measures up. can anyone help us? life seems surreal without her...
If you still lover her and she regrets it you could always try calling or writing her a letter to test the water. If you don't mind me asking how long ago did you two seperate? Could it be that it's still fresh and something you could eventually heal from with time?
I, of course seeing as I do this alot, agree with Luzifer. Just send those emotions away and make the memory of her stale in your mind. Maybe one day she will she how badly she needs you and come back on her own. If not, then it was not meant to be.
well oso im sad to hear hwat has happened the only thing that i can suggest is what luzifer has said (wow thats two people thats agreed with him lol joke) if in the future she realises that what she has done is a bad thing then she will come back to you. as a wise old person said to me if you love something let it go if it comes back its yours if it doesnt it was never yours in the first place. i think this refers to you let her go and if she comes back you will be happy together if not then it was never meant to be
blessed be and good luck in the future
If she regrets leaving u then tell her how you feel. Some people are embrassed or ashamed when they realizes they've made a mistake. She could also be scared you're angry at her because she knows she hurt you. Love is a funny thing. Take it from me do everything nonmagical before looking for a magic solution.
