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Hi im new here and I am having a problem and not sure how to get rid of it. In my life I knew a person who was definatley not good for me, I was bud to him for 7 yrs and addiction was rampant. I managed finally after many attempts to get a way from him and own my own power. I have recently foud out he has passed away with in the las yr and half, but even before I found that out he would torment me in my dreams, would controle me like he used to and the drugs would be happening again, ihave been clean off these drugs for several yrs now and am doing well. At the moment I am starting to work with crytals and learning about magik. I am taking it slow don't know lots yet, but am eager to learn, and I like the motto " Harm None" I just want him gone from my dreams theyare very upsetting tome and ifeel gross after having them, I don't want to hurt him but can I banish him to where he is coming from, can I protect myself from him, he was into some form of dark magic while alive but back then I never paid attention. I have smudged my home and myself, I have laid sea salt across doorways and windows, still he gets to me. Hope someone can help me . love and lite
peach

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With nothing on your profile, it is difficult to know how to help you. It seems to me that this is a figment of your imagination/addiction.
Just forget him! He cannot harm you; he's dead!

You need to cut soul ties with him and the drugs. Take 2 pieces of red cord and name each one. One for your relationship with him and the other one for the drugs. Cut each one in half symbolicly, and burn them.

"this is a figment of your imagination/addiction.
Just forget him! He cannot harm you; he's dead! "

hello ty for replying, my addiction wasn't a fig mof my imag, nor is it a figment that he is in my dreams , I am not asking him to come t me, I don't even think of him I love my life today, and he is in my past, although he is being bother some. I know he can not harm me , yet I don't want him to beable to bother me either.

ty wiccadoll2 wonderful suggestion, I will do this asap I appreciate your taking the time to help.
love and lite
peach68

You say that you work with crystals, than I think that you would agree when I say that a smoky quartz crystal would help, and maybe try cleansing yourself and a protection spell just for safetys sake

Get rid of stuff that reminds you of him yes you May be over him but trust me your still afraid of him cleanse your body and when you feel dirty wash your hands take a shower you may ask what dose that have to do with this but if you feel dirty your going to feel terrible witch equals in thinking of bad things that happen to you. You can even change your appearance. Nothing's better than a new look for a new start. Cleanse yourself regularly too. Can't hurt to try can it :)

wow thanks for all the help , I have done most of the things suggested I even have a hair appointment on Monday lol, I have just started my work with crystals so I have only purchased so far the 7 chakra ones, and a few that jumped out at me which was a very interesting experience, I have just bought the crystal bible by Judy Hall as well so im endeavoring now on that journey...... I did the banishing with the red cord and found it very empowering, I feel better now and my dreams have been way different so far ( I had a long nap today ) in such a way that I am actually having a restful easy sleep now , wow its wonderful ... ty for all the help hopefully I can learn and grow as to help others myself as well.
love and lite