I need a good breakup spe

OK, so, here's the situation. A woman I care deeply for is in an abusive relationship. She knows it but still refuses to believe it, thinking that she can change him. I've dealt with his type all of my life, and they don't change until something terrible has happened. I'm terrified that this will happen to her.
I wouldn't say it'd be a stretch to say that I love her. So in reality I need three things.
A breakup spell
A spell that will allow her to notice me as a potential suitor
And to know if this is a selfish way of going about things.

I'm in no way perfect,but I genuinely believe that I could make her happy.
I'd like to think that that's the reason I'm doing all of this,for her happiness.
But

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(Touch screen issues) if I'm gaining something from it (something being my own happiness) is it selfish of me to do this?

Hey- I was in an abusive relationship too... but my best friend (non magickal) stood by me. his support was what showed me i needed better. now we are dating.
im not sure that a breakup spell is needed... a protection spell or binding sounds right! But if he keeps it up... maybe then... im not sure... i don't know what he is doing... but if it gets serious (i know its so crazy to say but) get help....

getting help was my last thought...but it would of saved alotof pain on all sides

i didn't see the next post sorry-

to me its only selfish if your first/only thought is yourself.... and even if it seem selfish..you are helping her... trust me... shes probably just as scared

That's just it, its been two years of it. That's why I feel that it may be time to intervene in a more...or possibly less direct manner. I'd like to think that she'd break it off before something happened, but I'm not entirely certain and I just want to see her happy again.
Another thing that makes me feel that I may be selfish in acting in such a way is because I want to be the one to make her happy again.

She's always so sad now. And if she dated someone else, there's no garuntee that she'd be happy. While I have no garuntee that she'd be happy with me, I have a good feeling about it because whenever we're together (and her boyfriend isn't there or texting her) she seems happier than usual.

yeah... abusive relationships are hard to end. i didn't end it for well too long...
if you think its time to stop it... do a protection spell,or binding spell... then tell her how you feel... break up spell... might not be necessary... i cant believe im saying this but maybe you need to either fix him (get to the core of his abuse and try fixing it... magickk or not.) or make him fall in love with someone else... i highly suggest the first... i dont think passing him off is wise because it almost hurts everyone- your friend loses her boyfriend
this new girl becomes abused
and your guilt.
maybe both if you have to. your call. follow your insticts

I think I've found a good one on my own,one that hurts him for the pain he's caused her, and her...well, none. It gets her a better shot of ending it and I get my chance at making her happy. It is apparently regarded as a working spell, as long as my intentions are pure.

But if even part of my goal is to hurt him, is it pure?
If I'm doing this partly for my own gain, is it selfish?
Or because my main reason is for her happiness, are the other two canceled out?
The prior two are hardly even my intentions, almost just benefits of the spell that work in my favor.

But back to your point of causing him anger. I'm a fairly well off man when it comes to muscle mass, beyond that I'm a former boxer and can easily hold my own in a physical fight.
He on the other hand has no knowledge of magick, no prowess in physical altercations, and is low on muscle mass. Needless to say, I can take him hands down.
Should the spell fail, I have more than one backup plan that have worked in the past, with less desirable outcomes than this particular spell that I've found.

If the spell should work, she would be repulsed enough to leave, and then my second half of my plan could go to work. The part where I tell her my feelings, my intentions and why I love her so much.

it doesn't sound pure... sorry. to be honest i admire your protection towards her (im sure she does too) if i may suggest one thing--- be careful. either way it sounds like itll crash and burn with one mistake.

fights with upper hand such as knowledge of fighting technique or tactics is considered fighting with a weapon and could cause you some serious time in prison if you kill him. only safe if you aren't the starter of a fight, and you back off the second hes down and unable to hurt you.

Get proof and call the cops. No magic needed.

Getting proof and calling the cops doesn't necessarily mean she'll break it off though. A lot of people in abusive relationships tend to go back to the abuser. Now, I wouldn't really know what exact spells to use, but a binding spell sounds like a good starter. I've just simply seen loved ones who were in abusive relationships and have seen them go back to their abuser time and time again. Perhaps a binding spell on her so that she doesn't go back to the source of the hurt and pain?