New to the site, new to it all. I am uncertain, if i cast anything, that it won't backfire. I've had too much in the way of back luck and don't want more but I have also been very hurt by people and I want them to feel the pain they've caused, I want them to stop causing the pain, I want the truth to be revealed so that justice in their actions can finally, for me, being rectified.
So I'd like to find something that helps with bringing justice into my life but of course don't want anything to backfire as I've had plenty to deal with and still do.
any suggestions of spells that could accomplish what I seek and avoid what I really don't want to have happen?
You are totally new, so you should not start with casting spells.
You start with learning the basics such as meditation, centering, grounding, energy manipulation and visualization. These can be searched for in the forums or by using the search bar in the upper right hand corner.
Having something backfire is dependent on if you believe it will or not. I believe it will, therefore I do not cast spells to harm others, also because I think it is very uncalled for.
But if you wish to do so, then do it with caution and make sure you have a good knowledge of the basics and what magic is and how it truly works.
Hi - thank you for your response. I understand your advice and of course it aligns with my own fears. However, I feel like a series of wrongs have been done to me. I am still in a difficult position and am left with not a lot of choices and they can do anything they want. I know all sounds a bit covert and such but I am sick of feeling like this and I am sick of having those who did this, go on with their life and when they want, give me a dose more of unhappiness. So as you believe that spells can backfire, what would you suggest in this instance?
It depends on what wrong has been done. But even if someone killed a member of my family, it is not I who gets to take that person's life for I did not give it to him.
no, no lives have been taken. But a series of things...for example, a lot of meddling in my marriage, so much so, that it is in ruin. This meddling also caused me a lot of emotional pain as it was my in-laws, so they'd pressure my husband and he'd pressure me. It cost more than my marriage, it cost me more than I can really say on here but my life is changed. But despite that drastic change to my life, they win. They have him, I am left with a lot of mess and some can still use him to fulfill any selfish needs, at cost to me.
So I am weary of feeling the powerlessness I've felt for years and I am sick of feeling the powerlessness I am still subject to and I am sick of feeling like a series of some really wrong things have been done but because it was family having each other's backs, nothing ever happened except to say 'shut up' to me.
So I am looking for suggestions on ways to rebalance this situation. give myself something back for all I've lost.
You are in pain right now and not just you but your soul is. I suggest doing some energy work. This will be beneficial to you in the future as well if you wish to cast spells or do ritual work.
Basically, take time for yourself. You are in pain, so you need to focus on you. Your body is the temple of your soul. Do some meditation, listen to calming music. Sounds corny, I know, but that is what really helps when you are having emotional and spiritual problems.
You can bring justice to yourself by getting your life back and your confidence back. If they cause you so much pain, be rid of them. Negative energy attracts negative energy. You could also do some cleansing or purification work to your home to banish negative energies, like burning sage all around your home.
Since you are in pain your are full of negative energy right now, which is only normal. But to be rid of negative energy is to be rid of it inside of yourself.
You can search the forums on here for meditation techniques or cleansing techniques. But the main thing here is to focus on you. Once your mind is clear and you feel more stable you will be able to think more clearly.
I know it is easier said than done, but for a while now I have been studying meditation and visualization and could give you some tips on how to meditate and take care of yourself spiritually, emotionally and physically. Just send me a message any time if you'd like.
