What kind of love spell should I do? I like someone but he is gay, we have a bit in common and when we talk we usually make each other laugh and usually he is a very serious person to people. The thing is I'm transgender. I'm a guy but I haven't told anyone yet so everyone sees me as a girl. What kind of love spell should I do? A gay love spell or a regular love spell? I honestly don't know.
honestly love is love no matter what you dont need gender to do a love spell. before you do a love spell consider other ways of going about it. technaclly he likes guys but knows you as a girl so depending on how close you are to him decide if you want to tell him your transgender. also you may not even like him later down the road who knows.
There need not be a segregation between 'normal' and 'gay' love spells.
That being said,if you still wish for a valid answer,I suppose gay love spell.
Even if you are not sexually transitioned,or even if you dont 'look like' a guy yet,you are still a man.
Actually there are spells for 'Men Seeking Men' etc But for this I would suggest, talking to him, getting to know him, flirt and be real. Sure a Spell could help but first, trust yourself and try and ask him out (Once you two are closer friends)
Thank you, this is a tough one I guess. I'll see what I can do.. Do spells really see me as a guy though? Also what if I ruin our friendship by asking him out?
A spell does not see you as male or female, it is a ritual not a being. If you truly wish to do a love spell for this, I would avoid any gender specific spells. A spell is just a means of focusing your attention on and directing your energy to, your desired result.
Being that you have a female body and he is attracted to males, I would also avoid any that focus on physical attraction or lust. Instead try to enhance the "friendly" feelings you two already share. In doing this, you are boosting the connection you two have, allowing for a more natural progression. I feel that spells trying to force someone to completely change are less likely to work, and more likely to have ill effects.
There are also things you can do beyond spells. Find a scent that he is fond of, and wear a little before seeing him. When you talk, make sure to fully turn your body towards him and avoid closing yourself off with gestures like crossing your arms and legs. Although most people do not realize things like this consciously, on a subconscious level it screams "I am receptive and open to you".
Magick is Magick, but I have to disagree, Ere. Different spells use different energies, love spells especially. Masculine to feminine, feminine to masculine and so forth.
In this case, Magick isn't needed. Put yourself out there and try to gain this person without the use of the arcane, because if you use Magick to gain love, it can sour as quickly as it was created.
I do have to make the unfortunate comment of only certain spells can be done by certain people.
Such as there is a Commitment spell that calls for Adam and Eve Root, note this plant is endangered. Now if it was two men in a relationship you wouldn't get your lover to hold some Eve Root because Eve Root in this spell is meant to be carried by a Woman and vice versa for transgender relationships etc, you would carry the root that represented you as a person.
Eve Woman, Adam Man.
There are also spells where I can't describe the ingredients but I can say a Man cannot do the spell, full stop, end of story. As with some spells a Woman cannot do.
If you want to check out these said spells
Illes Judika, The Element Encyclopedia of 5000 Spells (2004)
