Suggestions for spells

Hello, I have a very dire issue. I will not go into great details, but I pushed away and harmed the love of my life... I am recovering from so much right now, including alcohol abuse... I've lost almost everything and the only person who stood by my side was my lover... even tho we had our problems, and we were falling apart and away, he still held onto me and made sure I was always okay..

Its a very dire situation right now. I cannot loose him, but I can see that with the amount of hurt and damage I've done, only magic can fix this. I cannot loose him. I'm honestly already dying right now with everything else, my desperation to have him back in my life is very high right now, my regret is unbearable.

I am unable to move on or let go of him, so please don't suggest that:/

My question is this, what spell kits/spells would you all recommend? Or if you have your own custom spells that you think would help.


I live in the Cincinnati area, so if you are near me please PM me! I would love to make local craft friends, and also help and direction on the casting of the spells!

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Well I know Rose Quartz is good for love spells and meditation. Amaranth is goof for mending broken hearts. Unakite speaks to the heart and opens love within. The colour pink is great for friendship, romance, acceptance, peace, self compassion and feminity. (Not that the last thing would be very helpful) Any black gems will help absorb negative energy and feelings. Hope this helps? Try meditating and purifying yourself?

Thank you!!!! I will do all these things. I do not know exactly how to craft my own spells, someone has agreed to help me do this. But any and all suggestions on where, how, when and what to use and general outline would be great!

Well you don't need a spell to meditate or cleanse yourself so try those with some crystals or gems. Otherwise just use some spells from this site, but they usually require a lot of materials or are for more advance users.

I really like this spell for forgiveness:
http://www.spellsofmagic.com/spells/life_spells/forgetful_spells/13118/page.html

I've used it in this way with 3 candles - one for the other person to forgive me, one for me to forgive the other person, and one that will help me forgive myself.

Well, as the others have said, use gems and crystals. Rose quartz is the best! Rose quartz is the stone of unconditional love and infinite peace. The most important crystal for the heart chakra; purifies and opens the heart at all levels. It encourages self-forgiveness and acceptance; invokes self-trust and self-worth. Use this if needed.

I suggest that you should look for Rose Quartz. As far as I know, it is known to rekindle the lost love, like that. Try also to meditate to clear and purify your mind.
On the other hand, don't trust the spell advertisements about love and fake magicians. They likely charge you couple of bucks for a fake spell.

Hi I am new to this and just noticed you used the forgiveness spell can you tell me would it be ok to use this spell daily for the same person or just the once.I would also like to ask if anyone knows of a spell for hurt I deeply hurt a friend and would like to ease the pain I have caused her if anyone can help me to help her it would be great, I used the forgiveness spell last night but I don't know if that will be enough can you help me thanks

Thank you everyone. Does anyone have any suggestions on a good place to buy things? I'm going to check the shop here.

Forgiving yourself is number one. Talk to your loved one and ask for forgiveness. That's when action comes into play. You cannot just use talk, you must use action to prove you have changed and are becoming well. No spell is needed for this. Meditate to think about what you need to do, then do it! High hopes for you!