Hi, I need a spell to get rid of my daughters ex-boyfriend. He is coming around again because he wants to see his son, but has never provided for them in any way in 4 years. He is young and selfish, and is just using my daughter. Do I use a spell to make him go away, or should I use a spell to make true love come to her? I would appreciate any and all advice! This is so worrying for me!
thank you!
I don't know where you are but where I am even if he doesn't support the child he is allowed to see the child. I am in that same situation, so yes I wish I could turn him into an ant and burn him with a magnifying glass.
he can legally see his son at her discretion, but he is there sporadically, which just causes confusion for the child and messes with my daughters mind
rensche, yes a magnifying glass with sun would be perfect. Any ideas on how to deal with this? He just needs to go away before he causes more problems. He lies and cheats so it is not going to change. This is just a fun change for him, in a month from now he will be tired of it....
Hi Ennisdeb: I am sorry to hear you and your daughter are going through this.
I started looking for a spell to make my daughter's boyfriend go away myself. He was very controlling with her and I was worried that he was a wife-beater in the making. And to top it all off, my daughter was head over heels for this guy. I'm very respectful of the rule of 3 and of the consequences of using magik to inflict harm. And too, I realized that my daughter is growing up (she's 18) and had to make the decision to leave or stay on her own.
After giving much thought, I crafted a spell asking mother goddess to help my daughter see the truth on her own about this fellow. And yay they finally broke up. It was not a pleasant break up, but I'm so happy she's not with him and she got out of what could have been a potentially abusive relationship. Because the break up was ugly, I also crafted a protection spell for her.
And I did contact local law enforcement to get the correct details of what I can and can't do, and what my daughter can and can't do to legally protect herself. I do recommend doing that so you can speak with someone who knows first hand knowledge of what the local ordinances are for your daughter's situation.
A lot may depend on your daughter, too, as it may be her who ultimately decides if she wants this guy in or out of her life.
I'm happy to share my spells - let me know if you would like me to email the ones I used for my situation. I'm sure you can make adjustments to suit yours. They are all written out in long hand so it may take time for me to type them up.
mvjcurves, I like the way you approached it. It is better for her to see what he is really like, than to try and make him leave and have her still want him around. Glad to hear it worked out for your daughter....you must be relieved! If you could send me your spells that would be awesome! thank you.
Hi Ennisdeb - I just messaged you the spells I used. You can change them around to fit your situation. Please let me know if they are helpful. This is the first time I've shared my own works so I'd love any feedback, good or bad. I do hope everything turns out for the best for your family.