I need help anyone please, my mind is stuck on this girl I love but I can't have that, she techniqually didn't or probably did, broke up with me, allowing a stupid jealous fan get into her head. I can't sleep, so someone help with this spell please
I'm not sure it would be a good idea to do a spell for this. Magick is not a fix-all thing. While there may be spells that can help you with this it may not be a great idea to use them. In my opinion, it would be best to face this problem so you will come out stronger, instead of unprepared to face another such emotional assault. This is simply my opinion, and I don't want to offend anyone.
Re: Spell to get rid of emoti By: H2OfanRikki / Novice
Post # 5 Jun 14, 2016
Think of it this way, how long in general is a human life? 50 - 100 years usually.
How long with you be thinking about this girl? maybe a few months at most.
Life does not simply end because you are sad for a while, emotions are a massive part of the way we express ourself into the world, removing all emotions would be shutting yourself down which is not a healthy way to look at losing one person from your life.
People will come and go, sometimes we are heartbroken, while other times we won't even notice someone is gone till they are long gone. Life is a constant rollercoaster of highs and lows, we can't tap out because we are sad for a while.
There is no spell that can remove emotions, but I think it is important that you try to move on and work out your issues with yourself. Take up a hobby, distract yourself for a while, study something or start a new chapter in your life, you have to find a way to work past this person, they really aren't worth you feeling sad forever.
Firstly, no spell will imediately rid a person of emotion. Secondly, what you are asking is not about being rid of emotions, it is getting over a girl.
The former is actually doable, though my suggestion is to learn to moderate your own emotions (and more specifically to moderate reactive emotions rather than all), but it is a long-term practice rather than a spell.
The latter is much easier. And it does not require a spell. But it is change. Whener you miss her, think of her, etc., tell yourself she has moved on. Think of her as different from yourself, and apart from your relationship. Make your thoughts feel like she is literally distant. Dismiss thoughts of her quickly. Do not dwell on her.
If something reminds you of her, acknowledge the thought and let it pass.
I'm going through the same situation but I ain't using any spells yet, hoping to recover soon strongly without any assistance of any spells. Maybe you should do the same!
I'm very new to magic but if I were you and wanted a magical solution, I'd look into spells to increase your chances of meeting someone else. I'm going through a very similar situation as you are right now and I've been here before many times. It's really rough but I'll tell you firsthand what you need is a new woman in your life. Because no matter how fantastic you may think she is, there's always someone else out there that will blow your mind and make you forget about the other girl who's already moved on anyway.
One more thing...DON'T LOOK AT HER SOCIAL MEDIA! I do this and it makes losing her so much harder and drawn out. Please resist the urge if you're doing it.
drink a caffeinated tea and then go for a jog. I would suggest you make your own tea because herbalism is beautiful and its another thing to take your mind off her. and if nothing else on this entire discussion helps, then see a psychologist.