How to change one's aura?

Does anyone have any tips on changing personality, inducing ego death, or changing your own mannerisms? I have some ideas on how to change, since I'm highly adaptable and can model myself after certain energies that I look up to and revere personally.

How ever I get these drives and habits that I can't seem to move past, or break. As if there is something pushing me to act compulsively, obsessively, feverishly, and I may not know the reason for it. Like there is a hidden, vague conflict that can factor into why I get anxiety randomly for no reason, but the feeling is still very real and ever ambiguous. (such as I get a feeling that I talk to much and express so many ideas that quickly overwhelm my friends and contacts, but I have this urge to scream out a cry for help, to connect to those around me, desperately, and it all floods out)

But in a magical/spiritual sense, how can I change my aura in order to communicate and convey to others that I want to befriend them, support them, attract them, and am interested in them and their life? While also reaching some kind of discipline and restraint to not say too much?

It is something that changes with your mood, the energy that you are letting go into the universe. For me, the aura is always changing, it ain't something definitive it won't be the same in two minutes always changing.

So, basically, you can't really change your aura at will, it changes with you, and how you are feeling, acting, maybe even thinking. It changes with you, having the will to change is what makes the difference. Hope this helped.

I actually forgot you were facting on here LOL

Anyway thanks for your reply achlys

-yeah that makes sense, it is a journey on my own... but it seems I'm a certain way even though I don't want to, and despite all of my efforts, I seem to act and do things that afterwards, didn't want to do, and usually isn't like my usual self and intention, like it just happened without much intent or reason(probably more of ADHD). And that is probably more of a question to psychology/mental health than it is in magic.

point is I want to be that person who people always open up to, but with different ways of approaching people and interacting, hasn't given me much difference I believe.