Get over an ex-lover.

Hey I'm new to this but wondering what' did you guys do to get over a ex lover..I'm looking for something strong and quick..

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Time.

Sadly nothing can make it go away overnight. You need time to heal. Do things that make you happy, go out with your friends, etc. Avoid isolating yourself.

It will hurt, but it will also pass. In my opinion relationships carry lessons, so we can always grow more. Give it time and keep yourself busy.

That's the best advice I can give you.

Hahaha, I know how the pain of love feels trust me...you're not alone on this one.

There are some things in life you'll get over them with time as well, or just time. The theory patience is a virtue is true..and if you don't have any more patience I can Easily tell you how you feel because I'm like that too, I barely have any left....

You could use healing Magick though. Spend time in nature as well and talk to trees and animals and such! Trust me they all understand you and have emotions and intelligence...humans haven't realized that animals have intelligence and even trees and plants, hahahah funny them.

About friends and such, they may help yes but everybody has different ways of dealing with situation. You may not be in mood to do that and if you're not don't push it too much. It will pass, trust me. These are parts of life. :)

Thank you so much we have children together so it kinda makes me hard it keeps opening those feelings because I literally did not do anything to him I just don't understand what happened.

It's hard I know. You don't have always "do something" maybe you jus didn't match as persons and characters, nothing bad.

About the childrrn, try to raise them normally. :) I know it's hard but try to see them as allies as well. Many people are in your situation right now.