I like this boy at school...his name is Paige and I REALLY like him i find every way I can too talk to him...but it seems like he doesn't want to talk to me. He doesent listen when I talk. But I think that is because he has ADHD. I am IN LOVE with him...it's sad because he can't seem to take a hint. I love him because he's selfless,funny,awkward etc. Not because of his looks...when I see him I just want to jump in his arms...can anyone give me a love spell? Sadly I only have 1 white candle and 1 Brown hazel candle at the time.Please help as soon as possible...Thank you my fellow witches :)
Re: I like a boy but... By: HearthWitch / Knowledgeable
Post # 2 Aug 23, 2018
Would a relationship with someone who doesn't listen when you talk seem like a healthy one?
If he seems completely uninterested now, a love spell won't do much and if you do a love spell, would the relationship be genuine if he doesn't seem to pay any attention without it?
These are all things you need to consider before thinking of doing a working.
If you are determined to go ahead, then a spell written by you is better than any pre-made one, as it will be deeply connected to you and your intention.
Re: I like a boy but... By: Weatherwax / Knowledgeable
Post # 6 Aug 24, 2018
I am with HearthWitch on this one, if he is ignoring your advances perhaps he is just not into you and or doesn't know how to word it. I think you should leave this boy alone.
You have a brown candle?! Lucky, I've been looking for a brown and a silver candle for weeks now. [the brown ones I find are scented T_T ] the brown candle can be used for stability in a relationship, but white can be used for anything so just use that one.
Personally I would tell him how you feel and ask him out. [maybe not that you're in love with him, but 'hey, I like you, you want to go to out to *event*?'] I've asked out the majority of the guys I liked, so while it's terrifying convincing yourself to do it, it's not as bad. [trust me, many guys rejected me, it was better getting the answer that pining over them and wondering]
If you want to go a spell route, I would go with a confidence spell for you, maybe a spell for him to notice him but even then that would be a little grey since you'll cast over him. [if you're fine with casting on him to like you I can get you a spell, just careful what you wish for and think before you cast]
Overall, I would either take the plunge and tell him, or try to move on and focus on yourself. As far as spells go, I wouldn't recommend casting on your crush, but there are various options to help you if you want to focus on yourself.
Shows signs of ADHD? Kinda aloof? Can't pick up on hints? Sounds like you could be in love with an aspie. Casting on them may make their feelings go into overdrive as our emotions are already pretty intense as it is. You just have to know that they have difficulty picking up on hints and communicating clearly. You'll have to be as blunt as possible.
Love spells are very dangerous. You seem young, so I wouldn't recommend something as complex as a love spell. You could try dreamwalking, which is safer, and appear in his subconcious, however, that might also be difficult. My advice? Use a simple luck cast, and tell him. Rip off the bandaid. But don't use a love spell. That's not only morally wrong, but could ruin your life.
