This is a really tough question to answer. Do you frequent any of the larger message boars, such as Reddit or Tumblr?
See, I've had a tough time myself. Some boards seem to have a general culture which I find off-putting. For example, I've tried some online communities which are pervasive with political talk. I don't conflate belief in magic with a political alignment, no matter how much some sites' members seem to insist particular politics are an absolute for those who practice magic. I apologize for going on that long about it, but it's just the easiest example I can think of.
Overall, I'm picky. The problem is that the places which fit my opinions the most as not off-putting for my own idiosyncrasies are the ones where it's tougher to find the more extremely in-depth conversations. However, if you do give us some hints of where else you might hang out online, and what sorts of paths interest you, people who frequent those places may have some good advice for you.
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