hello, I was wondering if there are any spells/rituals that I could do to help me become infertile? I was wondering that, before I would have to get a surgery that would later impact my health in a negative way. Im still young, and yes I know that I have a whole life ahead of me. However, im not wanting children.
Like you said, you are young. You never know what might change and so it's likely not a good idea to seek this sort of thing out. From experience, I never wanted children in my childhood and now I'm 17 and considering it, even at this age. Of course you could never want children, but it's still very early on to decide.
I don't believe any spell will cause infertility, as magic does not replace modern medicine. Any magical alternative will either fail you or create more serious health issues.
If right now something like menstruation is the issue, talk to your parents about potentially getting on birth control. It's totally reversable and depending on the country you live in, it may be free. This is also a good long term solution if surgical complications are of concern to you.
Re: Infertility spells. By: Lark Moderator / Adept
Post # 4 Jun 09, 2020
Unfortunately there are no spells that will make you infertile.
If you are in the US, then you might want to contact Planned Parenthood about various options for birth control They are able to help low income folks find affordable or free options.
It's also important to know that most physicians will not perform sterilization procedures unless you have already had children or have some medical condition that makes it necessary.
I would like to point out that if you are a woman, in the US, it is very hard to have a tubal ligation or other surgery to permanently prevent pregnancy. Most doctors require you to be over 25 and/or have at least 2 children. However, a man over the age of 18 can get a vasectomy with little to no argument from his doctor.
Good job making such a big decision. I would suggest praying or using a healing spell as well as surgery. Or you could admit yourself to a convent and all but that would not be very nice.
Re: Infertility spells. By: Artindark Moderator / Adept
Post # 7 Jun 11, 2020
Fertility is not a subject that can be eradicated by magical means only by medical ones. However, as others above mentioned the medical professionals are not in favor of the removal of any organs, unless absolutely necessary to save your life. These are last resort life changing procedures. Hormones produced by the ovaries play other additional and supportive roles in the female body. Same is valid for the ones produced by the brain to stimulate the ovaries and womb. It is hard to believe now, but your fertility keeps your health optimal as a woman. Your hormones keep your skin, hair and nails nice, strong and flexible. The estrogens maintains the bone density, supports the muscles growth. Estrogen also supports the immune system by aiding the production of t-cells. This is why women of reproductive age are less prone to die from Covid-19 and other viral diseases. Progesteron is mainly released by the corpus lutum in the ovaries and it has the ability to downregulate immune cytokine storms and prevent major organ and tissue inflammation. Estrogen for women also has similar effect as the growth hormones. It allows you to heal faster and to be resilient. All reproductive hormones affect your sense of well-being, emotions and thinking. In right balance they make you feel good in your own skin. I never realized what they were doing, until I had to undergo fertility treatment and inject massive doses of them. Everything changed for me. Even my personality changed. My perception of the world changed. It was like I was no longer myself anymore.
Please please consider all these things before deciding at any point to get any operation that will take these things from you forever. I also never wanted kids, until I was 35. I felt like I was never able to take this responsability towards another human being. Then, I just changed my mind and we got diagnosed with infertility. Infertility is an ugly monster to have to fight daily. I know many people on the fertility forums on different platforms having very deep regret for ever getting surgeries as many of them cannot be fully reversed if at all. People change, minds and feeling change, circumstances change, life changes us. We all change, and knowing that you have a choice about having a child or not matters. Please choose another less extreme way to control your fertility, which will not impact on your health on all levels and take away your future choice. We have not yet met our future selves. One day we will, and the less regrets we have when this happens better.
Talk to your general practitioner about your choices and always make sure you have a choice to change the course of events for yourself and your life. The right of choice is a power countless women before us fought for and still many are fighting for all over the world. Lets not throw it away carelessly. In martial arts the power of the woman comes from her hips and pelvis, and our inner power as women is forged into our ability to chose the role we want to play in society and in our own life. Never allow to anyone to take that away from you.