Anger Calming

Inscribe each candle with 2 of the following runes:

1. Nied: To help calm distressed emotions
2. Gifu: To restore one's mental equilibrium and perspective
3. Beorc: To bring harmony back into the household
4. Sigel: To bring healing to all effected
5. Kenaz: To renew peace within the family
6. Ing: To bring a positive ending to the situation

While carving the candles, be sure to visualize the person who is the object of the spell as being happy, calm and relaxed. See any problems between the two of you as having already been resolved in a way that promotes growth, mutual respect and understanding (not necessarily agreement which may not be possible... just agreeing to disagree and letting the matter drop).

Anoint each candle with the Peace Oil, again visualizing the other person and you living in harmony with all quarrels forgiven and forgotten. As you do so, chant:

"Dragons of hearth, Dragons of home,
Stable as Earth, Stable as stone,
Lend me your strength, lend me your calm
Help me to make this magical balm".

Light the peace incense and light the candles. Write the person's name on each piece of paper in blue ink, and pass each one through the smoke of the incense and say:

"As smoke fades to nothing,
so does the anger that lies
between name and me.

Let no harsh word
or ill feeling remain
that may cloud our hearts or minds".

Light each piece of paper from a different candle and place it in the fire-proof receptacle. As you light each one, chant:

"Peace I send from me to you,
Love I send to follow through.
From this anger be set free,
As I will, so mote it be!"

Let the candles burn themselves out if possible. If not, try to burn the candles for two hours each day/night until they burn out. If you cast a formal circle close it as usual.