Carve your name or your initials in your wand.
On a full moon rinse your wand in the holy water and chant 3 times:
With this energy of water I link and consecrate our power.
Do the same for the dirt; the fire; and the smoke from the blessed candle.
Leave your wand in the full moon and the next day you should be linked to your wand and it to you.
You now have an extension of your powers.
