I honestly don't know what to do. At this point I'm very desperate! I'm having some personal problems with my dad. He doesn't accept my boyfriend for the simple fact that he's 1 or 2 inches shorter than me. All my boyfriend does is treat me like his queen, never have I had any problems with my boyfriend. My dad already threatened me to kick me out of his life for good if I continue in this relationship. I can't leave my boyfriend, he doesn't deserve this. All I want is for my dad to accept him. Is there ANYTHING I can do? Please Help!
Have you tried sitting down with your dad and talking with him? Asked him why he disapproves and explain the situation?
Good Communication can always help . You should get you and your boyfriend together and talk to him.
You shouldn't get worked up when he just insist no . Try some persuasion and tatic in the conversation . With enough skill , You are sure to be able to get his approval.
How old are you and how and how old is your dad,since he threatens to kick you out of his life?Maybe he's just playing the role.
And it's the first time I hear something like this:usually it is economic,social position or,race for racist families.Are you sure your dad simply does not like him just because a feeling or such and uses height as a justification?Or knows something you don't know and won't tell to hurt you.
Whatever it is,ask your dad to tell you the TRUE REASONS,because height is such a stupidity that simply can't find a place on a sane human mind.
Either your old man is lying to you about his reasons,either(please pardon me),he needs serious medical help.
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If he is lying,find the truth and confront it with justice.If he is sick,curse him so hard he gets his mind back.
Do you really think it's about growth? I take the doubt in this matter. The father is worried about you. And he does not tell you why. I think that the problem does not lie on the surface, it lies deeper. You have to analyze and understand the situation. If you can not, I'll help you
Your dad obviously knows something you don't and is horrible on making excuses because unless there's some chemical imbalance involved which I doubt. Now obviously most on this thread have been quite rude and not suggesting quite the right ideas. Obviously you care for both your father and your boyfriend or you might of already chosen your answer. Now the chemical imbalance (don't worry we all have them, some less extreme then others but we all have them) if that would be the case would most likely be OCD and he can't help but to feel that the male should be taller or it's not OCD then there could be some emotional scaring related to height he may or may not be aware of. Now you expected a magickal answer I assume or you wouldn't be at this website. First you must try to solve this without magick, if you can solve a problem without magic you always should so it's best you have a calm chat with your dad if every thing fails, then magic. Be patient and use magic as a last resort.
Yes, I've already tried speaking to my father about the situation. He's just ashamed of me dating someone who's shorter than me. Since he comes from a small town where everyone critiques everything anyone does, my dad's more ashamed of what these people are going to be saying about him having a daughter dating a shorter guy. But that's the least of my concerns. I'm 26, my bf's 27 and my dad is 50 years old. I'm the eldest of his children. I know for a fact that me being the eldest has a lot to do with it. But he can't be doing this with everyone I date (this isn't the first time). But this relationship has been very serious. Talking with him hasn't worked. I've cried my eyes out and pleaded my dad. That didn't work. I don't know what else to do. That's exactly why I'm turning to magic. Like I said before, at this point in time, I'm truly desperate for SOMETHING or SOMEONE to help me with this.
try use a good luck spell and talking to him. If that doesn't work, use a more powerful spell that will change his mind ,yet you must be aware that magic is real tricky.
