Is there a spell that will stop a family fighting?Ever since my Grandparents passed away my Aunt and Uncle have been awfully mean to my father and I. My Aunt keeps calling my father a bully when he had done nothing, but help my Grandmother. He was the only one to have helped both grandparents when alive while my Aunt and Uncle had not been there. They now call him a bully and bring up old conversations that happened years ago sometimes even before I was born. My Aunt and Uncle have only seen me as a shadow and because of this I have watched their behaviour for a very long time and know very well on what they put my father through. Normally, my father tries to protect me so I won't get into trouble, but they have both recently pulled me into the drama. Drama I do not want to deal with.
My father is very tired now to the point that we are thinking of brining the police into this matter since both of them enter our land without our permission and have stolen items from my Grandmother when she was alive and ourselves. I do not wish to call the cops unless we really have to. In the meantime I'm wondering if there is a spell to stop fighting. A peace spell or a balance spell. If so, what items would I need. Any ideas are welcomed.
Personally, something like this in my personal practice would inspire me to implement more than one working. This is merely how if this was happening to me ( and something family related and very similar is) I would deal with it ( in my similar circumstance, I'm simply not).
A peace spell is an option. I unfortunately do not exactly have one. I have a kindness spell written, but I am uncertain of your feelings on that, if attempting to bring more kindness into the heart's of your relatives is a working you would consider.
I honestly would start with a binding spell, I can suggest one for you via pm.
Then a simple candle lighting in prayer.
Then I'd end with a protection, spell or amulet for both the house and those within, particularly your father. I can only imagine what he must be going through.
If all of the above fail, a family talking to, hashing out- in a positive way in concern for your loved ones behavoir, which quite bluntly should probably take place first.
If all else fails... and if they are trespassing on property either owned by your father, family, or a landlord- think an out of control family could very well have an effect on your ability to rent- then perhaps it is time to consider involving the authorities, if it gets too out of hand.
Hopefully you and your family, including uncles and aunts are at least physically safe.
I am sorry you are having this trouble.
And my condolences for your loss.
Let me know if you'd like me to suggest a binding spell.
I don't think a simple peace spell will be enough. Have you considered banishing them instead? Banishing is basically forcing someone to go away and leave your life. If you're interested, this worked for me in two months. The guy I cast it on moved schools.All you need is a black sheet of paper. Black construction paper is likely the easiest to find and will work fine.
Bury and Banish:-
Write the person's name in the middle, and it doesn't matter if you can't actually read it. It just has to be there. Fold the paper up as small as you can. Take it outside and bury it in the ground. Once it's buried, say the following out loud:
Into the ground
You can't be found
You're not around
I can't heard your sound
Step over the place you've buried the paper, and that person will soon fade from your life.
Or if you just want a peace spell, I can give you a few small tips that could help. Read them all and see which one works best:-
1. Consider drawing a sigil on one of the house's walls for peace. You can draw it somewhere no one will notice, as long as it's inside the house. Also try cleansing the house and any other parts of the house.
2. Consider a sigil seed spell. Take a fast growing plant's seed and plant it in a pot. Draw a sigil on the pot with an intention like this-"Peace and positivity grows from this seed" . Charge the sigil as well. Don't burn it, but simply charge it in some other way.
3. Put lavender, rose petals, and any other sweet smelling plant, flower, or herb you can find. Only take the parts that emit a nice smell and don't take anything poisonous or in any way potentially dangerous to you or others around you. Once you've collected the herbs, put them in a small pouch. Draw and charge a sigil on the pouch with an intent-"Peace and positivity fills and stays wherever this pouch goes". Carry the pouch with you for a few days, and keep it with you. If you can't take it somewhere, leave it in the house (you can hide it if you want).
I would rather not banish them because my cousin is about to give birth and I do wish to support them with the new child on the way. Not to mention my Aunt and Uncle are co-owners with my father on my grandparents house. It's why I'm looking for a balance spell or a peace spell because I do still want to keep in touch with them.
Ok. If you don't want to banish them, here are some tips and small things you could consider doing:
1. Consider drawing a sigil on one of the house's walls for peace. You can draw it somewhere no one will notice, as long as it's inside the house. Also try cleansing the house and any other parts of the house.<br>
2. Consider a sigil seed spell. Take a fast growing plant's seed and plant it in a pot. Draw a sigil on the pot with an intention like this-"Peace and positivity grows from this seed" . Charge the sigil as well. Don't burn it, but simply charge it in some other way.
3. Put lavender, rose petals, and any other sweet smelling plant, flower, or herb you can find. Try to find plants with a peaceful aura, or any plants that have been known to calm people down. If you can't find stuff like that, just use nice, sweet smelling plants. Don't take anything poisonous or in any way potentially dangerous to you or others around you. Once you've collected the herbs, put them in a small pouch. Draw and charge a sigil on the pouch with an intent-"Peace and positivity fills and stays wherever this pouch goes". Carry the pouch with you for a few days, and keep it with you. If you can't take it somewhere, leave it in the house (you can hide it if you want).<br>
4. There are many peace spells on the site too. Pick one that could work and cast it. There's a section on peace spells, so look into that or just use the search bar. Again, don't pick something that could be harmful in any way
Their anger an hostility towards you and your father is purely based on their own regret and remorse for the passing of your grandmother. Often we take for granted time, which in a senseis slipping by every moment. They did not help your grandmother, as you stated, or at least not in the way that your father did and now that she is gone they have lost that opportunity. I pity them greatly as their negative energy is simply a manifestation of their regret and because it is so overwhelming to them they are seeking a means of deflecting any responsibility for it, so they target you and your father.
I guess with the advice of what others have posted I would also consider stepping up to be the bigger person. Know they are the cause of their own discomfort and they have not grown enough mentally to accept their choices. Speak with them with kind words, loving memories of your grandmother and them, all of the positive moments so that they can focus on those to elevate their regret. When they start bringing up negative thoughts stop them, simply state "you are filling yourself with negative energy, breath and stop for a moment." Often when I point out someone is growing in anger from negative energy, they pause and admit it. No one wants to be seen as negative so when we catch ourselves we strive to be better.
I am sorry for this strife, especially during these difficult times when family is really all most people have right now.
