What I would do is trust my own instincts on what I think I should do. It's your spell. You should decide if you want to add something, cut something out, or just leave it the way it is.
You can use incense if you wish,you can call upon the goddess Aphrodite(Greek),Venus(roman),Parvati(Hindu) (all of them are for love) but just call on one.
You should keep the paper in a safe place and you can keep a light candle (light the candle on the same time on the same day as you did the spell).
Also do the spell on a Friday pay attention to what type of moon there is and the planetary hour.
You can even incorporate oil if you wish such as rose oil which can be placed upon the candle and the paper.
You can also use parchment paper instead of ordinary paper although you dont have to any paper would do but one pleasing to the eye (one you like)will work also use your favorite pen,pencil,marker whatever.If you like the paper your using and the object to write it with then your putting together things that you like after all ingredients,objects and such are important to the spell and the way perceive each item affects it as well.
Everything you do must reflect your intent. Dress your red candles with rose oil. Use words that reflect your intent. Gods Goddesses Archangels if you believe in them. Fire represents passion so use the fire element to your advantages. Djinn is the king of the salamanders (fire elementals). Invite him to the circle.
You could also carve your intention into the candle and after performing the spell do a visualization of the two of you together and happy. Also think about incorporating herbs and spices associated with love.
You could also carve your intention into the candle and after performing the spell do a visualization of the two of you together and happy. Also think about incorporating herbs and spices associated with love.
I would suggest researching the different aspects of a spell: how to charge, what correspendences are and choose the ones that best relate to what spell you want to cast, learn the general order and rythem to sucessful spells and once to learn all of that put together the spell. You want to use all of the aspects of the spell to focus your energy and mind on what you want. Read about how to send your energy out and find a technique that suits you. Now, the trick is to be able to gather energy and focus as much as possible without trying to do so much that you lose focus and you lose tge flow of the spell. Practice your words and what you are going to do and when you will do it. The more you can flow through the spell and keep your focus, the stronger your spell will be.
The basics of a written magick spell are that you write down, in sacred space and with full attention -- what you intend to bring into your life...
Start with quality tools.
Find a journal, or even a sheet of paper, that really speaks to you. Use a pen that you don't use for anything but magickal work, and that you love to write with.
You don't want to be distracted by a pen that's not working right, or to have your energy diluted by using a book you don't like.
Choose one spell for casting. It's best to give your full attention to one magick spell at a time.
Ground, cast a Circle, and enter sacred space.
Invoke deities and qualities of the elements that are relevant to your magick spell. For instance, Hygeaia can be invoked for health. And Earth as the source of healing, Air as a new beginning, Fire to transform the situation, Water to cleanse and release the source of dis-ease, and Spirit to fill you with wellness.
At the least, you need to shift your consciousness: meditation, mantra, and visualization will work too, but they lack the added power of the elements and Divine for your spell.
Write precisely what you wish to call to you, in as much detail as possible.
Developing the spell with tons of detail helps you manifest exactly what you want, and it also helps you envision it, which makes your magick spell stronger.
Phrase your spells in positive, immediate terms.
Write it as if you already have it. And in positive language.
For instance, "I am looking out the window at a beautiful skyline..." is much more effective than "It won't have an ugly view of the factory...."
(Find out more about how to phrase it correctly.)
You can also use pictures to get the point across -- especially if you are more visual than language oriented.
Close off any loopholes you can imagine. (In other words: detail, detail, detail!)
If you're looking for a lover, say, you might want to specify the city they should live in, and what gender they are.
Don't take anything for granted! The Divine can be like a high-priced lawyer, and delights in finding ways to twist your meaning. (After all, She has to get Her own 2 cents in.)
Focus with all the attention possible.
This is very important. Try to bring your full awareness to every word you write.
Attend with your entire being.
Imagine all your cells and atoms standing at alert, participating in this act.
Visualize having it!
(For tips on what it really means to visualize, see What Visualization Really Is.)
Bring all the power of your emotions to bear.
FEEL the joyful anticipation of having this thing that you desire.
It's crucial to feel the desire as a happy thing, rather than a sense of yearning and lack of the thing. It can make all the difference.
Put in your Magickal Caveat. The classic — and crucial — one that comes at the end of the spell goes something like this. . .
"I ask for this, it's equivalent or better. Let it do no harm nor rebound on me."
When you are done, empower it by sending it energy or prayers, and seal the spell (remember the Magickal Caveat!).
Thank and release your circle.
Let it go!
Do not reread your spell... at least not until it has been fulfilled.
You've written a letter to the Divine, asking for what you want... but if you hold onto the letter by rereading it, it loses power. It's like you take it back from the Divine every time you reread.
Same goes for thinking about it. Put it out of your mind, once you send it to the Divine.
Believe It! You must know that your magick spell is going to work. Give it the power of your belief... one of the most powerful forces on the planet.
Keep your written magickal spells in sacred space.
Your altar is perfect, or a specially dedicated spell box.
Once your magick spell has manifested, you may burn or bury or float away the letter.
If it's in a special magick-spells journal, you may want to mark it in some way as complete. Paste a picture of your manifested spell over top, or an appropriate sticker works well too.
Doing multiple spells often works well, by overcoming your subconscious resistance to the thing you desire. You can peel back the layers of your desires, to get to the heart of them.~Marq~
