huge problem

what do you want to atract

Intent is the main thing here. If you intend for your light to send off your spell, as well as protect you, that is what it will do. Just remember to raise energy for the spell before you "repel" it, :) . Blessed, we.

ok but i do not want to repel what i want to attract! so the problem is that after i do a spell to make a girl that i love come close to me i alway have the *unwanted* tought to put a white light around me that program my aura to keep her away from me as white is reflective. But i dont want to program my aura to keep her away from me! is that ruining my spells?what should i do?

White light is good and what it is trying to do is banish negativity.
I usually visualize a blue bubble surrounding me and it usually works just fine especially when I do any magickal work.
The point is that you are worrying over nothing.
Also you should not do any spells that will take away someone will. If the chick wants to get close to her because she wants to than it is all good but doing a spell that will make her come to you is not good cause you are taking her will. It is like a puppet being controll by the person controlling the string; meaningless with no real emotion onto it.

This is why you cast a circle before you do a spell/ritual. It acts as a protection boundary for things that you would NOT want to attract.

White light banish negativity but it can also program your aura to keep anything away as it is reflective. But can white light keep away what i WANT to attract??or it only keep away what i dont want thats the main question...

when casting your white light protection around you, you must also have a focus and intent of and upon that white light to allow the magick to her to pass through and anything positive from her to pass through to you. You are creating the 'wall' or 'shield' and you can manipulate it as you see fit as long as you are doing that while casting it. yes, just imagining it is casting it.

As long as you focus and direct the energy to keep away only what you want it to keep away, you should be fine.

yea but what if the spell to attract what i want is done and then i have an unwanted tought like putting a white light around me that keep what i want away from me. For ex: if i want to attract someone after the spell to attract that person is done what is going to happen if i have an accidental tought of having a white aura and saying "this person is away from me"? is it going to instantly ruin my spell of attraction and program my aura to keep this person away from me? If yes then i dont know how i would be able to attrct anything. and this is a huge problem.

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