broken heart

hey,

From ur past posts, i know u have been working on ur honey jar. just let it work n give it one moon cycle.

believe in it's working. If done correctly, it works for everyone and would work for u too. But u have to stop obsessing abt it. i know its hard. but that is how it goes.
Telling u from experience. And one year is way too much! side by side u should start working on ur self to move on!

thank you. i am doing the honey jar but this morning i foynd out that he is with someone else now and it hurt sooo bad. i couldnt work and ive been trying to make myself sleep all day just so i can stop thinking about it and being sad.
why do i feel so sure that this man is my soulmate and my heart and soul are so deeply in love with him...when i say im heart broken its a real physical pain that i feel...
so yes my biggest wish ever is to have another chanceto bring him in my life but if thays truly impossible then i desperatly wantto get over him and i dont know how

Hi...

Sorry to hear you're going through all that...one year is a very long time.

I have been where you are, I separated from my sons father in February after 10years and I thought that I would never get over it, but someone else came along 3 months later when I least expected or wanted it and I haven't looked back.

The only person holding you back from moving forward is yourself and by what you said your ex has clearly moved on.

I always believed there is someone for all of us out there and we just never know when or where we will meet that person...we just know when it happens cos that person will feel the same way too and nothing will stop you from being together.

I know it's hard and you feel you can't carry on but the best thing to do is pick yourself up, dust yourself off, hold your head high and embrace life and it's challenges.

That's what I did and that's what I made myself believe. I had to start over with a 5year old boy...I'm loving life now and have a great man in my life who came into my life at the time I needed it but didn't realise it.

Sorry for long essay, but hope it helps x

thank u
is there any work i can do to help ease how i feel. the only time i feel better is when im sleeping. i really want peace and strength to get through this

Cleo

For whatever its worth, ive been following your posts. Im so sorry youre going through this. I know how it feels.

Don't let it change you in a negative way. You seem like a really sweet caring person and you deserve to be loved.

When youre ready, call out for that love and I feel pretty confident it will come to you.

youre in the middle of something really hard right now, time will give you perspective. youll need perspective to see the big picture. once that comes into focus youll realize just what an amazing person you are and that you fully deserve to love and be loved because of your gifts and talents and because the world is a better place since you are in it.

im sending you all my positive thoughts because you are worthy and I get this strong feeling that you are going to be happy and make someone else really happy.

stay brave and never forget that you have a lot to offer the world and others.

thank you so much thorleifc...your such a sweet and amazing person and your reply really touched my heart and actually made me cry.thank you from the bottom of my heart for trying to lift me up and make me feel better it means the world to me.
i wish you happiness and love always and for all your dreams to come true :)

you deserve it Cleo. I wouldn't say anything if I didn't really believe it.

Stay strong and never forget that you deserve the best

I'm going to save myself some typing and copy what I have on my profile.
My Thoughts and Feelings about using Magick to FORCE someone to love you.

Why do some of you feel the need to force someone to love you?

I was with my ex for 10 years and I have known him for many more. We may have broken up but we are the best of friends. I refused to do any magick to get him to come back to me. We were not meant to be together as lovers yet we are meant to be together as best friends. How is it?
My ex is my soul mate ask him and he will tell you the same. Now just because we are soul mates does NOT mean we have to be lovers. We both know we have to be in each others lives.
In all honesty I had a broken heart for a long time it took me almost 2 years to be able to move on without him. Please take my advice and give yourself time to heal your heart and soul. Please do not rush or force him to talk to you. I waited and he came to me on his own and I would not have had it any other way.

Well cleo...you have been doing quite a bit of casting regarding this situation from what i have been seeing in the forums. The forums are full of desperate broken hearted folks looking for love spells. In each case there are experienced casters who respond with warnings about love spells. One of the biggest drawbacks to casting love spells is that the most certain outcome is that you will bind yourself more to the target. We all have to deal with the consequences of our actions. Moving on for you has not been easy (its been almost a year and you have spent it casting to get him back rather than moving on). In your current situation I would remove every trace of him.... pictures, gifts, whatever. Get some hobbies, keep busy...busy hands and a tired body often leave less time for fretting and obsessing. Do not spend more time even talking about him...you will find that eventually you arent thinking about him so often, and then one day you arent thinking about him at all.

thank you linda for your reply and your advice.
just to clarify i most certainly have not been casting spells for one year! my first attemp to do a honey jar (my first spell ever) was a month ago when i joined this website and i messes it up twice because i am a complete begginer and my latest one was the last full moon.
yes i posted a lot here because im new and looking for encouragment and help which i have been blessed to recieve from many kind and generous people here.
im sorry im confusing everyone but actually the reason i started this thread was to get advice on how to work on myself to have peace andmove